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The complete blog post can be found here.
"In one sense, their lives are a bloodless martyrdom. The media mostly forgets them except for the occasional condescending piece in the Times. They fit no stereotypes, being too numerous and too interesting, so they are ignored. They sacrifice for the well fare of their children.
Talents that could vitalize a corporate board room are turned to teaching children to read. Their children, of course, take such sacrifice for granted. Their mothers make it safe for them to be blissfully unaware of their blessings. So these strong women sacrifice everything our culture deems important. They have no resume inflating career. Yet they give new life and meaning to all the Victorian platitudes lodged, because they are true, in the back of all our minds. “The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world.”
These are kitchen table Socrates. They don’t trust the government schools that spend billions to produce cookie cutter children. These women use cookie cutters on cookies not children. Like Socrates, they despise uniformity in education and people who teach for money and not love of students . There children are producing reems of stories, hours of music, original plays, and a whole new civilization. If our boys are overseas defending the West, these women are home renewing it.
Home school mothers are the heart of a traditionalist revolution that is driving life back into the homes. To these women, and the men blessed to be married to them, homes are no longer assets or places to share a microwave dinner at the end of an exhausting day of separation. Spreading like some beneficial virus, men and women are returning basic educational, economic, and social functions to home where they have always belonged.
A great poet was brought to see God through the example of one godly woman. Dante had his Beatrice and it was enough. It is harder for men in our materialistic age, so God has raised up thousands of such women. It is time to take a good hard look at what these heroes without epic poets are doing in quiet. I put very little trust in princes, whether elected or not. Rather, if the oldest stories are true the fate of the Republic rests more with these home school mothers.
There are now millions of these strong, independent, God fearing women in the United States. They ask nothing of government, but to be left alone.
These women are not impressed with stardom and glamor, many do not even own televisions. Their men work long hours in their own, often not very glamorous, businesses so that their wives can save the West. The men they admire get things done with decency and honor. They are often quiet men, but as sound as the state credit used to be. Their wives chose them for their virtues, not their muscles. Home school mothers are fiercely liberated and proudly traditional.
Seeing God in Beatrice allowed Dante to find his way back from darkness. Seeing God in these home school mothers could show any man the way back to decency and honor. I know, because I am married to a home school mother and she fires my imagination, gives me hope, and is educating the future of our line."
John Mark Reynolds
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Chari Forum Moderator
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WOW
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Cay Gibson Forum All-Star
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WOW Twice!
__________________ Cay Gibson
"There are 49 states, then there is Louisiana." ~ Chef Emeril
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Elizabeth Founder
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This made my morning!
__________________ Elizabeth Foss is no longer a member of this forum. Discussions now reflect the current management & are not necessarily expressions of her book, *Real Learning*, her current work, or her philosophy. (posted by E. Foss, Jan 2011)
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WOW thrice .
I sent that article off to the moms in our homeschool group. Great way to end the week!
__________________ Donna
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I feel special today! What a tribute!
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What a piece! It made me proud to be a part of the Beatrice Brigade with all of you.
Natalia
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This is so awesome! My husband enjoyed it as much as I did! Thanks for sharing this!
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Wow, yet again!
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Mary G Forum All-Star
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I'm betting most of our husbands would say the same things -- just in different words. We're great home learning moms BECAUSE we usually have dh's helping us too....
I'm forwarding this to Rick -- he's going to love it. THANKS for posting.
__________________ MaryG
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Mary G Forum All-Star
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The whole blog piece is worth reading too....
__________________ MaryG
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Awesome.
I sent the article along to some friends who I would love to entice into homeschooling. They're a really great family with girls just on the brink of going to regular school. Will you please pray for them?
God bless,
__________________ Tina, wife to one and mom to 9 + 3 in heaven
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Wow and thanks for sharing!
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Cay Gibson Forum All-Star
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Mary G wrote:
The whole blog piece is worth reading too.... |
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Definitely!
I printed a copy for safe-keeping and gave it to my dh to read last night. He read it then asked: "Is this suppose to be you?"
__________________ Cay Gibson
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Cay Gibson wrote:
Mary G wrote:
The whole blog piece is worth reading too.... |
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Definitely!
I printed a copy for safe-keeping and gave it to my dh to read last night. He read it then asked: "Is this suppose to be you?" |
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Edited: I forgot...the first think he said was: "Good writer."
Me: "And? What do you think about what he wrote?"
Men!
__________________ Cay Gibson
"There are 49 states, then there is Louisiana." ~ Chef Emeril
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Yes Cay, it's you and me and a whole host of other women who've made mistakes but whose children, God bless them, forgive us our imperfections as we forgive them theirs. This article came at just the right time to absolutely rocket my love of homeschooling to new heights. to you Cay. You are that strong, talented, traditionalist woman who was blessed with a husband with a wry sense of humor.
__________________ Tina, wife to one and mom to 9 + 3 in heaven
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Wow!! This is great. I'm going to share it with my homeschool group too.
__________________ KC,
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Mama to LB ('98)
Michaela ('01)
Emma ('03)
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And, my 2 angels, Rose ('08) and Mark ('09)
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Cay Gibson Forum All-Star
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Tina P. wrote:
This article came at just the right time to absolutely rocket my love of homeschooling to new heights. |
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Oh, me too, Tina! After I read it, I was so in with this lifestyle I almost couldn't breathe.
Tina P. wrote:
You are that strong, talented, traditionalist woman who was blessed with a husband with a wry sense of humor. |
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You're sweet. And very perspective. My dh does have a 'wry sense of humor', God him.
__________________ Cay Gibson
"There are 49 states, then there is Louisiana." ~ Chef Emeril
wife to Mark '86
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What a great essay, so affirming and encouraging! I hardly feel that I live up to the model, but it does express quite beautifully so much of what I believe about the gift of homeschooling.
I emailed the link to my dh at work (which too often seems to be our best mode of communication these days ), and this was his response:
I could have written this. Except for the part about going to the talk on Socrates. [I'm too busy doing laundry!] Oh, and the part about marrying men for their virtue and not their muscles.
So typical of him---sweet and funny.
Thanks so much for sharing this lovely piece of writing!
__________________ Peace,
Diane
Mom to five fair lasses and one bonny prince
The Journey of a Mother's Heart
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A very lifestyle-affirming article. I enjoyed it completely.
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