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Posted: Feb 03 2010 at 11:46am | IP Logged Quote SusanJ

I'm wondering what a normal amount of food is for a 5yo boy? Mine seems like a bottomless pit lately. He's not big on breakfast but the rest of the day he seems to just eat and eat and eat. Three and four helpings at dinner sometimes. Is there any fear of a kid overeating?



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Posted: Feb 03 2010 at 12:02pm | IP Logged Quote JodieLyn

I don't know how much they should be eating. But yes they can overeat. And I would point out that when people go on diets one of the big things often mentioned is.. if you don't eat a good breakfast, then you're more inclined to overeat the rest of the day.

If he doesn't care for breakfast foods.. there really isn't anything wrong with feeding him a bean burrito for breakfast or leftovers or whatever.

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Posted: Feb 03 2010 at 12:05pm | IP Logged Quote CrunchyMom

That said, they can eat a lot when their growing!

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Posted: Feb 03 2010 at 12:06pm | IP Logged Quote JodieLyn

oh yes, that is true Lindsay. Mine go through times when they eat more or less etc. And there are always meals that get eaten more.. or less

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Posted: Feb 03 2010 at 1:40pm | IP Logged Quote hylabrook1

Agreeing with both Jodie and Lindsay. Adding: (and I'm sure you already realize this) try and make sure what he eats is wholesome, vitamin rich, good for you type of choices. Maybe if he started with eating something more likely to fill you up, like an apple, or that was a little more time-consuming to eat, (like a cut up apple?), or taking the extra time to dip pieces of cut up apple into some peanutbutter, he wouldn't have time to overeat? Just thinking about my own eating habits , I know that if something is *down the hatch* too quickly, I'm prone to just eat more. If he eats a lot even then, it's most likely a growth spurt. And those can definitely make a child eat some amazing amounts of food!

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Posted: Feb 03 2010 at 2:34pm | IP Logged Quote SusanJ

Thanks for the feedback. I'm worried because he isn't as active as other kids his age. He's in and out of his wheelchair a lot through the day and for awhile we wondered if he tended to eat more when he was "stuck" at the table because he'd asked to sit in a regular chair. But since then we've been making sure that he's always in his wheelchair and it doesn't seem to make much difference. He just very much has a "stay put" mentality.

That said, breakfast is oatmeal M-F which he just doesn't really care for. I'm a "take it or leave it" person when it comes to meals but I should be better at having apples or something on hand to give him a choice. Saturday and Sunday we often have something like pancakes. We also eat a few hours later but he'll eat a LOT of those. Yesterday's lunch was homemade pasta and cheese which he requested four helpings of (I stopped him after three). Today's lunch was half an apple to dip in peanut butter and he left a slice of apple behind on his plate.

So I think I need to get him more fruits and veggies and then not stress too much.

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Posted: Feb 03 2010 at 2:43pm | IP Logged Quote DominaCaeli

One thing I'll do now and then is take a sample day's meals or two and total up the calories to see if they're within a normal range for their age. It just gives me something to go off of. I don't like meal time going on *too* long, but I also don't denying them when they insist they're still hungry. The calorie count gives me a rough idea of whether I'm being unreasonable.

I usually don't allow second or third helpings of main dishes (or snack foods) but will instead allow them just about as much vegetables as they want after a meal--they'll usually only eat more veggies if they're genuinely hungry. And if they do go for the vegetables for several days in a row, I then know to start upping their main dish portions accordingly, since they really aren't getting full.

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Posted: Feb 08 2010 at 7:18pm | IP Logged Quote melanie

If his weight is normal and this hasn't been going on too long, you might wait it out. My kids go through spurts like this. I have one, though, that is overweight and would eat like a freight train at every meal if I let him...especially carbs. He's on a medication that makes this worse, could that be a possibility with your son? Otherwise, for this one, I do limit foods that he tends to purge on especially, and if he insists that he is really still hungry I will have him drink something if he hasn't done that in a while, and then tell him to wait 15 minutes and if he's still hungry he can have something more. He almost always forgets about it. He eats so fast too, I think it takes him a while to feel full.

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Posted: Feb 08 2010 at 8:31pm | IP Logged Quote sewcrazy

My 5 year old eats more than I do a day by A LOT! But he is skinny, so I rarely deny him food. He eats a lot of protein and good fats and is generally a good eater, he is just in a state of perpetual motion

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Posted: Feb 08 2010 at 10:24pm | IP Logged Quote SallyT

My now-7-year old suddenly upped his food intake around that age. The transition from erratic-light little-kid eating to BOY eating was really kind of startling. He is a very physically active kid, but then, he had been just as physically active when he wasn't eating so much, so I put it down to growth. It's gone in waves since then, but overall, that was the age when he began to eat like an older child and not like a preschooler.

I just try to keep healthy food at the table, and to provide some kind of easy filler -- with two boys (and my oldest always had a big appetite; I don't remember a marked transition in his eating, until he hit adolescence and started scooping the contents of the entire fridge straight into his mouth), that just seems to be a must. Rice, pasta, potatoes . . . anything to fill them up, after they've had a couple of helpings of the main course.



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