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Posted: May 05 2008 at 9:23am | IP Logged
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I am looking for a creative way to celebrate Mother's Day with my MIL this year and am open to suggestions. Really I just want to hear all of those sweet stories that make you go "Awwwwwwwww!" Does anybody have a favorite Mother's Day story to share either your own celebration or one from your childhood? Any creative gift ideas or special way to celebrate the day? My creative juices are at a serious low right now and I need to get them pumping!!! Thanks!
__________________ Charlotte (Matilda)
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Posted: May 05 2008 at 9:25am | IP Logged
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Matilda wrote:
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Oh my, Matilda! If yours are at a low right now, I can't imagine the possibilities when they are on full force! You've been impressing me lately with all your creations, particularly the dragon cake!
I don't have a clue what to do for my mil either, and we're driving up there to see her!
__________________ Jennifer G. Miller
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Posted: May 05 2008 at 9:47am | IP Logged
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Forces of construction (not destruction) have drained me dry (not to mention the stomach bug I am recovering from this weekend). I was hoping that by talking about our favorite memories, it might spark an idea.
For me, it was the first time I gave my mom a corsage. My dad always picked one up for her when we were growing up. By the time I was married, my parents had divorced so it was up to me to arrange for one on my own. My mother has always mourned the loss of the three children that she miscarried very late in pregnancy (6 months) and was always very grateful for the two (me and my brother) she did carry to term. She had always given her mother a 7 rose corsage; one for each of her 7 children. When my mom went to pick up Grandma's corsage that year, the florist gave her one from me; a five rose corsage (2 pink and 3 white). She was incredibly touched that I had remembered the children that she carried in her heart.
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I called my mil this morning and asked her if there was a project she wanted done around the house that dh and the boys could complete for her this week...it turns out she wanted to paint something or other and they are on the job...tomorrow, I am going to let the boys make signs that say "We love you Granny/GranGran/Aunt Marcie..." then take a balck and white phots of the five of them holding the sign and have them printed in 8 X 10s. Then I am going to have them cut magazine text in the letters that spell their names and decoupage plain wood frames with them.
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Posted: May 05 2008 at 11:20am | IP Logged
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When mom gets a corsage, it means so much to her. I remember seeing all the moms in church wearing one, and it wasn't until I was older that I started buying one. It was little, but it meant so much.
A few Mothers Days I've assembled a brag book or memory album for both grandmothers, and also gave a picture frame with the latest photo of the children. Since I'm terrible about getting pictures printed and passed out, this was greatly appreciated. I've given small photo albums with pages left empty, so when I *DO* send pictures, they can be popped into the album and all in the same place.
One year I turned the tables and gave my mil a "Grandmother Remembers" book. I asked her if she would fill it up for us so we could share some of her memories. I got it used, and it has places for her to insert pictures, stories of how she met her husband, etc. My mil is a widow, so it kept her busy and helped her sort through the family photos, too.
It gets me choked up when I read through it.
__________________ Jennifer G. Miller
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Posted: May 05 2008 at 11:21am | IP Logged
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Oh, I forgot to add my reality this year is a visit to my MIL in PA. We'll be doing her spring projects around the house, buy hanging flower baskets for her house, and perhaps a corsage this year.
I didn't get the photos in time, although I might be able to try before Thursday. Gotta get the garden in, though.
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Matilda that's a beautiful story! I vaguely remember that there's a significance to the colors of a mother's day corsage?? Certain colors indicate that your mother is alive?? Or something like that?
Does anyone know what I'm talking about?
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Maryan wrote:
Matilda that's a beautiful story! I vaguely remember that there's a significance to the colors of a mother's day corsage?? Certain colors indicate that your mother is alive?? Or something like that?
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I certainly hope she's alive since I'm pinning a corsage to her! Yikes!
LOL
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Oh, I needed that laugh today, Jenn!
I did find this on a Yahoo answers page that confirms what Maryan said:
Red corsage if the recepients mother is alive.
White corsage if the recepients mother is deceased.
Yellow corsage if the recepient has a deceased child.
They referenced the Florists Assoc. of America but I couldn't find the original source. I do know that my mother always chose yellow roses for her mom because they were her favorite. I chose white for the children my mom had lost to represent their pure souls and pink for my brother and I because I so desperately wanted him to be a girl when he was born. This was my chance to make him one!
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Matilda wrote:
Oh, I needed that laugh today, Jenn!
I did find this on a Yahoo answers page that confirms what Maryan said:
Red corsage if the recepients mother is alive.
White corsage if the recepients mother is deceased.
Yellow corsage if the recepient has a deceased child.
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Interesting. I was looking at the Language of Flowers and coming up with a dead end.
So what does pink mean, as it's the most popular corsage I've seen?
__________________ Jennifer G. Miller
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I have a funny memory from when I was a kid.
One year we decided to head out to Burke Lake and somewhat on a whim, we rented a rowboat. My dad went out with some kids and came back. Then I went out with my mom and one of my siblings, don't remember which. We row out, though not very far at all. We couldn't have been more than 100 yards from the boat launch. Suddenly we can see bad weather coming. Which causes my mother to FREAK OUT. She got hysterical because she was POSITIVE we were about to be struck by lightning. I had managed to row us out there, but with her carrying on I could not pull myself together to row us back. Imagine some kids and a screaming woman going in little circles. They had to send a park ranger in another boat out to "rescue" us.
And an interesting thing...
My father and I, though we never consult each other, tend to give my mother similar gifts/themes every year. Just a few years ago I got her a trio of vases, same shape different colors and my father gave her a trio of vases, different shapes, same color.
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JennGM wrote:
I certainly hope she's alive since I'm pinning a corsage to her! Yikes!
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This has me laughing out loud.......thanks!
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