Oh, Dearest Mother, Sweetest Virgin of Altagracia, our Patroness. You are our Advocate and to you we recommend our needs. You are our Teacher and like disciples we come to learn from the example of your holy life. You are our Mother, and like children, we come to offer you all of the love of our hearts. Receive, dearest Mother, our offerings and listen attentively to our supplications. Amen.



Active Topics || Favorites || Member List || Search || About Us || Help || Register || Login
Mothering and Family Life
 4Real Forums : Mothering and Family Life
Subject Topic: The joys of a large family - books? Post ReplyPost New Topic
Author
Message << Prev Topic | Next Topic >>
Leonie
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Jan 28 2005
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 2831
Posted: Oct 10 2005 at 9:45pm | IP Logged Quote Leonie

I recently re-read "Three Steps to a Strong Family" by Richard and Linda Eyre ( parents of nine). I came away refreshed - the Eyre's books do a lot of good in sharing the joys amidst the work of raising a large family today.They also offer practical helps.All this and joy, too!

I also really like Linda Eyre's book "I Didn't Plan to be a Witch" - she really reminded me that the work we are doing is eternal. And it was funny!

Does anyone have any other suggestions for books that share the partcular joys of raising larger than average families?

As my boys get older, I see that the joys are what have made the memories - we all laugh now at the day that Greg ( age 1 1/2) smashed eggs on the floor and then tried to blame his two month old brother!



__________________
Leonie in Sydney
Living Without School
Back to Top View Leonie's Profile Search for other posts by Leonie
 
Bridget
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Feb 07 2005
Location: Michigan
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 2198
Posted: Oct 11 2005 at 6:18am | IP Logged Quote Bridget

Parenting With Prayer by Mary Ann Kuharski is one of my favorites. She has 13 children. Many were adopted. She teaches about the sacraments and the basic prayers like the rosary but with lots of family stories interwoven.

__________________
God Bless,
Bridget, happily married to Kevin, mom to 8 on earth and a small army in heaven
Our Magnum Opus
Back to Top View Bridget's Profile Search for other posts by Bridget Visit Bridget's Homepage
 
Mary G
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Feb 07 2005
Location: Virginia
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 5790
Posted: Oct 11 2005 at 6:35am | IP Logged Quote Mary G

Leonie:

These were mentioned on the memoirs thread a while back, but the books by Shirley Jackson -- Life Among the Savages and the sequel Raising Demons are a hoot (and they're Catholic)! Sad note is that Shirley Jackson died in her sleep when she was 47 or something -- but her books are great!

Deborah Kerr's Please Don't Eat the Daisies is also great about life with 4 boys....the movie with Doris Day and David Niven is a classic.

Of course, Cheaper by the Dozen and the sequel Belles on their Toes are excellent reading also.

Happy reading

__________________
MaryG
3 boys (22, 12, 8)2 girls (20, 11)

my website that combines my schooling, hand-knits work, writing and everything else in one spot!
Back to Top View Mary G's Profile Search for other posts by Mary G Visit Mary G's Homepage
 
Bridget
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Feb 07 2005
Location: Michigan
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 2198
Posted: Oct 11 2005 at 6:47am | IP Logged Quote Bridget

Here is our most recent funny 'large family story'.

Kevin was presenting at a school technology conference. He introduced himself and said that he works in one of the largest school districts in our state and they have (some large number) of computers. Someone there who knows him, spoke up and said, "Kevin you don't do anything small. Do you all know that he has 7 children?!" After that he had the hardest time getting it back on track. All these teachers wanted to talk about was our family. How do we keep up with laundry? (We don't.) What vehicle do we drive? (Big van, big gas costs) How many bathrooms do we have? (3, but there is till a line up sometimes) It went on and on. The consensus was that I must be a saint. (Yeah, right)



__________________
God Bless,
Bridget, happily married to Kevin, mom to 8 on earth and a small army in heaven
Our Magnum Opus
Back to Top View Bridget's Profile Search for other posts by Bridget Visit Bridget's Homepage
 
teachingmyown
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Feb 20 2005
Location: Virginia
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 5128
Posted: Oct 11 2005 at 9:10am | IP Logged Quote teachingmyown

Thanks for this thread. I don't have any suggestions but am very eager for inspiring and helpful books that can help me make sense out of this life~

A good laugh would help too!

__________________
In Christ,
Molly
wife to Court & mom to ds '91, dd '96, ds '97, dds '99, '01, '03, '06, and dss '07 and 01/20/11
Remembering Today
Back to Top View teachingmyown's Profile Search for other posts by teachingmyown Visit teachingmyown's Homepage
 
Bridget
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Feb 07 2005
Location: Michigan
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 2198
Posted: Oct 11 2005 at 10:54am | IP Logged Quote Bridget

Danielle Bean's book, 'MY CUP OF TEA' and her blog are fabulous reading for enjoying family life with many children. She manages to find beauty and humor in the crazy situations that come with a large family.

__________________
God Bless,
Bridget, happily married to Kevin, mom to 8 on earth and a small army in heaven
Our Magnum Opus
Back to Top View Bridget's Profile Search for other posts by Bridget Visit Bridget's Homepage
 
Leonie
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Jan 28 2005
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 2831
Posted: Oct 11 2005 at 5:44pm | IP Logged Quote Leonie

Bridget, I loved your funny story!

When Gregory ( second son) was four, he talked about our family hopefully having more children and then about the children growing up and having children. Then he said - "And we'll have Westenbergs everywhere. We'll rule the world!". ( His favourite cartoon at that time was He Man and The Masters of the Universe. lol!).

Mary, the kids and I love the movie Please Don't Eat the Daisies. Have you read "Who Gets the Drumstick?" - the movie Yours, Mine, Ours with Lucille Ball was based on the book. The book is funny and also a good look at managing the practical side of a large family ( I think they ended up with 22 children.).


__________________
Leonie in Sydney
Living Without School
Back to Top View Leonie's Profile Search for other posts by Leonie
 
Mary G
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Feb 07 2005
Location: Virginia
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 5790
Posted: Oct 11 2005 at 6:03pm | IP Logged Quote Mary G

Yours, Mine and OUrs is a great favorite around here -- maybe becuase we have a "blended marriage" -- but only a total of 8 (but I do have "grandchildren" that are older than my own.....

Someone is making a remake -- might be good, might be bad....

The book is MUCH better if you can find it. It really is a wonderful, marriage is great, kinda book....



__________________
MaryG
3 boys (22, 12, 8)2 girls (20, 11)

my website that combines my schooling, hand-knits work, writing and everything else in one spot!
Back to Top View Mary G's Profile Search for other posts by Mary G Visit Mary G's Homepage
 
Leonie
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Jan 28 2005
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 2831
Posted: Oct 11 2005 at 7:41pm | IP Logged Quote Leonie

Yes - the book is excellent - makes you want to know what happened as the family grew up.


__________________
Leonie in Sydney
Living Without School
Back to Top View Leonie's Profile Search for other posts by Leonie
 
JennGM
Forum Moderator
Forum Moderator
Avatar

Joined: Feb 07 2005
Location: Virginia
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 17702
Posted: Oct 12 2005 at 7:33am | IP Logged Quote JennGM

Raising Catholic Children by Mary Ann Kuharski is also good.

An an out-of-print book I love is called Room for One More. This family added foster children to their 3. It's great.

A book I haven't read in total, but it's on my list is Will Mrs. Major Go to Hell?, collected works of Aloise Buckley Heath, mother of William Buckley, Jr. She had 7 children.

__________________
Jennifer G. Miller
Wife to & ds1 '03 & ds2 '07
Family in Feast and Feria
Back to Top View JennGM's Profile Search for other posts by JennGM Visit JennGM's Homepage
 
Erin
Forum Moderator
Forum Moderator


Joined: Feb 23 2005
Location: Australia
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 5814
Posted: Oct 12 2005 at 7:50am | IP Logged Quote Erin

Helen Doss wrote a book called 'The family Nobody wanted'. I really enjoyed this. Written around the 2nd World War. Helen and her husband (he was a minister) weren't able to have children. They adopted all twelve of their children. An interacial family. At one stage she had six children under four. All children were under twelve years when they adopted their last.
Very hunourous.

__________________
Erin
Faith Filled Days
Seven Little Australians
Back to Top View Erin's Profile Search for other posts by Erin Visit Erin's Homepage
 
Leonie
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Jan 28 2005
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 2831
Posted: Oct 12 2005 at 4:58pm | IP Logged Quote Leonie

Erin, love that book. I have read parts of it aloud to my children....

__________________
Leonie in Sydney
Living Without School
Back to Top View Leonie's Profile Search for other posts by Leonie
 

If you wish to post a reply to this topic you must first login
If you are not already registered you must first register

  [Add this topic to My Favorites] Post ReplyPost New Topic
Printable version Printable version

Forum Jump
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot create polls in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum

Hosting and Support provided by theNetSmith.com