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Maggie
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Posted: Feb 21 2012 at 12:14pm | IP Logged Quote Maggie

Dear Moms,

Please pray for my dad. He recently accepted a job as a Fire Chief within the last couple years. He had a great vision and wanted to turn the department around so that it could really serve the community.

The city manager has asked all departments to do a considerable budget cut. However, as my dad pointed out, he is operating with a 1980s budget...he does not have enough firefighters. In his words, "there are more librarians in this town than there are firefighters."

Last week, he sent out one ambulance on a call...and then another call came in...he sent out the second and last ambulance. The department only has two ambulances, though it should have three times as many...

After the only two ambulances were gone, he got a third call for a pulseless-non-breather.

The only person left at the station was a mechanic...and him...he and the mechanic jumped in my dad's car and raced to the scene...without the necessary life-saving equipment...and the man died in my dad's arms.

My dad was devastated because if he had the right equipment, he really believed he could have helped the man and saved his life.

So...my dad is suffering terribly. He has been a firefighter for over 30 years...it's not that he has not seen death...no, he has seen his fair share of tragedy...in this case, he thought that what happened was so preventable...and something that could have been completely avoided.

On top of that, because he has made such a public stink about their lack of finances, he was punished and demoted. The person in charge of the fire department now is...get this...NOT A FIRE FIGHTER. Never has been. How is that for public safety?

He is really suffering here.

Please please please pray for him...and for guidance...and what he and my mom should do next.

Please please pray for his spiritual healing in this regard, too...because I know he has a hard time with wanting to know "why" God permits such things...that seem so preventable. I know it is a mystery based on faith--but his faith is fragile.

Thank you for your prayers.



      


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Posted: Feb 21 2012 at 1:02pm | IP Logged Quote A-Lil

Sending prayers for your dad.


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Posted: Feb 21 2012 at 1:41pm | IP Logged Quote wifemommy

Sending prayers. Thank you to your dad who has tried to do the right thing. -Annie
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Posted: Feb 21 2012 at 1:57pm | IP Logged Quote Grace&Chaos

Oh, this is so hard...praying for your dad

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Posted: Feb 21 2012 at 2:07pm | IP Logged Quote guitarnan

I am praying, too. I have read about situations like this one around the U. S. It's really tragic.

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Posted: Feb 21 2012 at 2:45pm | IP Logged Quote Kathryn

How sad! Praying that your dad can feel God's presence and guiding hand during this difficult time.

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sending prayers....
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Praying for your dear father and all those who serve.

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Praying for your dad.
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Posted: Feb 21 2012 at 5:30pm | IP Logged Quote DominaCaeli

Praying here too.

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Posted: Feb 21 2012 at 7:02pm | IP Logged Quote kristinannie

Sending prayers. This is where our money should be spent...not on wars and useless legislation. We have a similar problem here. Our volunteer fire dept is probably going to have to close because they can't raise the $45,000 it takes to feed and house the VOLUNTEERS. Ridiculous.

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Posted: Feb 21 2012 at 10:57pm | IP Logged Quote guitarnan

Many cities are in a similar situation. No money for facilities or vehicles. More 911 calls as police staffing cuts kick in and people are scared. Firefighters trying to plan for worst-case scenarios.

Perhaps we could consider pledging specific prayers (a spiritual bouquet) for our first responders and also offer prayers for all communities considering funding cuts for firefighters, police, paramedics, 911 operators and other first responders. This would be a great Lenten prayer intention!

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Posted: Feb 22 2012 at 6:33am | IP Logged Quote mariB

Oh, dear this is terrible and I am so sorry your dad is going through this. Praying for him. I will keep him in my daily intentions. My brother is a firefighter so when I pray for him I will be praying for your dad.

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Posted: Feb 22 2012 at 8:56am | IP Logged Quote cathhomeschool

I am so sorry and am praying for your dad and for his community!

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Praying for your father Maggie. May our Lord bless him and your entire family with a rich abundance of supernatural grace to deal with this difficult cross. We always pray for firemen and others in the line of duty whenever we see them on the road and will certainly increase our prayers for the added trials they and your father face in these difficult times.

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Oh, Maggie. I am so sorry your dad had to go through all of that. I will pray for his peace of mind.


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Praying for your father and for the situation at the fire department.

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What a sad and unfortunate situation. Praying for him.

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You have my prayers, Maggie!

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