Oh, Dearest Mother, Sweetest Virgin of Altagracia, our Patroness. You are our Advocate and to you we recommend our needs. You are our Teacher and like disciples we come to learn from the example of your holy life. You are our Mother, and like children, we come to offer you all of the love of our hearts. Receive, dearest Mother, our offerings and listen attentively to our supplications. Amen.



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Posted: Oct 19 2011 at 9:23am | IP Logged Quote AmandaV

I have some relatives who I love dearly but don't speak with other than family gatherings. They are both Catholic, non-practicing, married outside the church, and are finally ready to start their family. However, one has a genetic bone disorder - extra bones develop and can be mild or debilitating. It began spontaneously with his mother and he and his sister both needed several surgeries, and endured some awful pain. Therefore, he and his wife have decided to use IVF to test for this disease and pick embryos that don't seem to have it. I've spoken with his mother, briefly, but I'm not sure how much talking I can do or if it will help. I think I just need to pray, and I ask your prayers too, that these two lovely people will have a change of heart. My heart is breaking for the children they will be creating but not implanting.

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Posted: Oct 19 2011 at 9:48am | IP Logged Quote guitarnan

Joining you in prayer...

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Posted: Oct 19 2011 at 1:55pm | IP Logged Quote stefoodie

praying with you, Amanda...

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Posted: Oct 19 2011 at 3:03pm | IP Logged Quote jawgee

Prayers.   

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Posted: Oct 19 2011 at 8:50pm | IP Logged Quote juliana147

Praying here, too.

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Posted: Oct 19 2011 at 10:07pm | IP Logged Quote Booksnbabes

Praying for them and for all those who do not understand the immensity of their actions in the quest for children.

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Posted: Oct 20 2011 at 12:07am | IP Logged Quote Chris V

Praying along with you, Amanda.

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Posted: Oct 20 2011 at 12:40pm | IP Logged Quote 3Giftsathome

Oh, Amanda my heart is just aching at reading this    Praying, praying!

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Posted: Oct 20 2011 at 2:12pm | IP Logged Quote Maggie

My heart aches reading this, too. Will pray.

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Posted: Oct 20 2011 at 3:08pm | IP Logged Quote hylabrook1

Such a heart-wrenching decision! Praying for everyone involved. It is so, so sad to realize that sometimes people are so driven toward their goal that they begin to see truly questionable means as being a good idea.

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Praying.

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Posted: Oct 20 2011 at 4:24pm | IP Logged Quote cathhomeschool

Praying!

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