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Chris V Forum All-Star
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...silly, maybe. But I often find myself in some mental oasis with Jesus, pleading for the Grace I need to be a gracious hostess.
I struggle with the mess, clutter, and disarray that comes with housing guests for the weekend. We are celebrating dd2's birthday this weekend and family is arriving today. This often means that beloved grandparents provide (ahem) too much of *everything*...bedtimes and routines get mussed up, activity level soars, and my peace within my own heart plummets down as I try so very hard not to wish them, um, back to their own homes.
Terrible. I know.
Please pray for my change of heart. And my openess to the temporary hulabaloo, and to wrap myself in graciousness for the family I love so dearly.
__________________ Chris
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Prayers that you be blessed with peace this weekend. And joy.
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Praying, Chris.
Peace,
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Praying here, Chris!
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Praying!!
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Praying for you!
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Praying with empathy!
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Praying, Chris!
Happy Birthday to your dd.
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Oh, I so know this feeling.
Keeping you in my prayers this weekend.
And have fun!
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Praying Remember you are making important memories and it's only for the weekend.... I love the entertaining part it's the pre-cleaning that does me in...we have 40-50 plus people coming for a cabin fever party tomorrow. I'll offer my cleaning for calmness and fun for you Annie
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Chris V Forum All-Star
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wifemommy wrote:
Praying Remember you are making important memories and it's only for the weekend.... I love the entertaining part it's the pre-cleaning that does me in...we have 40-50 plus people coming for a cabin fever party tomorrow. I'll offer my cleaning for calmness and fun for you Annie |
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Thank you. Thank you. Not only for your offering, but more importantly, recognizing that this weekend isn't about me. Oh, how easy it is for me to always make 'things' about *me*.
Memories for my children. And providing them with a wonderful weekend for strengthening and enriching family relationships. ... that goes for me too.
Thank you all for your prayers.
*Annie, you are gracious, indeed, for hosting such a party!!! How fun it will be!
__________________ Chris
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Praying! Often the anticipation is worse than the event itself.
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Praying! I totally understand.
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Yes, having guests in the home can be stressful, but think of all the wonderful pictures and scrapbooking pages that will result from it! Your children will love going back and looking at those pictures when they are older. In fact, they may even help you to scrapbook them!
Praying...
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Praying, Chris...
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Praying here too...I know how stressful these things can be and I feel the same...memories and moments that my children and relatives wouldn't have unless I made the sacrifice and the effort.
Sending warm Chamomile tea thoughts your way!!
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Praying.
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