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amyable Forum All-Star
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My 95-year-old grandmother is really struggling right now. She is totally despondent (she is normally a hystrionic worrier, but this is way over the top). She calls me many times a week crying and wishing she were dead. I think her once acute mind is slipping because she will wail about things I have assured her over and over will never come to pass (like she'll be living on the streets, etc).
My father is her only child, and they do not get along at all - although they talk regularly (they live a few hours apart) it always degrades into a hateful, yelling stress-fest. He just can't emotionally separate himself and see that she is extremely old and in need of loving care.
My father starts a new job tomorrow and is quite anxious about it, and adding this in with my grandmother (and some things about my brother) has been so hard on him. While you're at it, could you say a prayer for my dear mother who is the innocent bystander in all this craziness but takes the brunt of my family's venting?
Thank you so much. You are all in my prayers!!
__________________ Amy
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Praying, Amy!
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Oh, Amy, I so get this. I will pray for everyone in your family...
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Praying, Amy!
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Oh, Amy, you poor dear lady caught in the middle, caring about all of the different people involved. Be assured of my prayers for the entire situation and for everyone affected.
Peace,
Nancy
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Praying for all involved, Amy!
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Praying Amy!
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Praying for all.
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Praying for your family.
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Prayers for all of you, Amy!
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I'll keep you all in my prayers, Amy.
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I can relate to that. I'm praying for you all.
Blessings,
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I've been praying for your intentions, Amy, but haven't been able to post until now. How are you all doing?
Love,
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amyable Forum All-Star
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Thank you for asking, Angie - things are the same ... but I keep myself in happy denial I guess when no one is calling me on the phone.
Everyone's prayers are SO appreciated. Thank you! (where's the blowing kisses icon? )
__________________ Amy
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