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Posted: Aug 05 2008 at 3:01pm | IP Logged Quote mama251ders

We were in the middle of refinancing our house, the lender set a closing date this morning for next Wednesday and then my husband gets a call this afternoon that we can't refinance because FHA won't let you go from a lower to a higher rate (we were actually going to be saving money because of the way our current holder had handled our escrow account). I am livid and hurt and panicking. We were skipping our August payment with this refinance and we have already spent most of it on home repairs. The new lender is talking about pulling from our equity to pay the mortgage for this month, but that means taking out a second mortgage! How is it that we are being punished for the lenders mistake! We really need prayers to get this figured out. This puts us in a horrible position, we have no savings and I don't know what we are going to do. Please pray that this gets worked out. Thanks so much!

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Posted: Aug 05 2008 at 5:08pm | IP Logged Quote aussieannie

Betsie, praying for you and that this will resolve!!!

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Betsie,

I will certainly pray the you all can come to some solution. This financial crisis is so disheartening!



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Posted: Aug 05 2008 at 10:40pm | IP Logged Quote teachingmom

Praying!

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Posted: Aug 06 2008 at 1:07am | IP Logged Quote Michaela

Praying, Betsie!

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Posted: Aug 06 2008 at 1:29am | IP Logged Quote ladycarobe

I'm praying for you, Betsie.

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Oh, Betsie...praying for your situation!

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Praying here, Betsie.

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Betsie, I have, and will continue to lift this in prayer.

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Praying here, Betsie!

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Posted: Aug 06 2008 at 9:19pm | IP Logged Quote Mackfam

Oh, Betsie - this does sound so stressful! I'm praying for this situation to be resolved in a way that helps your family!!!!

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Praying for you, Betsie.

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Posted: Aug 12 2008 at 7:05pm | IP Logged Quote Angie Mc

Are things working out, Betsie? I'm praying.

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Posted: Aug 12 2008 at 8:04pm | IP Logged Quote mama251ders

We're waiting to find out what is going on with our car before we do anything about the mortgage. I know that sounds silly, but it all has to do with whether we need a car loan or not. Hopefully we'll find out about that tomorrow and can then move forward and get past all of this. I swear, when it rains, it pours here! Thanks for the prayers.

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