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Posted: Jan 08 2010 at 8:34pm | IP Logged Quote Nique

If there is ONE thing you do CONSISTENTLY to make your life easier, what is it?

Do tell!

Mine is storing a few extra bags at the bottom of our garbage pails..so the next time I'm changing one, all I gotta do is reach in and there's another, all ready for me

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Posted: Jan 08 2010 at 8:58pm | IP Logged Quote JodieLyn

putting bills on the bulletin board.. plus having a list (on the computer so it doesn't get lost) of which bills are due which pay period so that even if a bill doesn't show or does happen to get lost I know it still needs to be paid.

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Posted: Jan 08 2010 at 9:19pm | IP Logged Quote teachingmyown

Sleeping in? Does that count?!

I try to do my bills once a week and schedule all my online payments during one sitting so I don't miss one. I have a list of everything in Quicken.

I also try to keep the diaper bag stocked with diaper, wipes and extra clothes so I don't have to search for anything on the way out the door.

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Posted: Jan 08 2010 at 9:29pm | IP Logged Quote drmommy

Getting up very early for prayer and quiet time. It made a HUGE difference in my life.

On a practical note, getting my clothes and makeup ready for the morning.
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Posted: Jan 08 2010 at 9:36pm | IP Logged Quote Maddie

Consistently inconsistent.

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Posted: Jan 08 2010 at 10:33pm | IP Logged Quote guitarnan

Thinking through important events - dance competitions, Scout events, dinner parties - step by step by step, so that I'm ready to go when the day actually arrives.

I drive my family nuts with this. Dance competition days involve a packed picnic lunch, hairstyling, makeup, dance dress and socks and shoes (polished, two pairs) - so it helps if I go through the ritual well head of time and figure out what we need for competition day. Dh bought me a car-mount GPS for Christmas, so I won't get lost (and wake him with "I'm in Delaware but I'm lost" calls) any more!

Planning and pre-packing for field trips, family vacations, dance competitions, etc. helps me relax on the day of the event and enjoy the moment. I know my phone and camera are ready to go and I know we'll have lunch ready, too. I'm the only nonspontaneous person in the family, so pre-organizing is very important for my peace of mind.

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Posted: Jan 08 2010 at 11:08pm | IP Logged Quote CatholicMommy

Doing little cleaning throughout the day - as I'm in a room or going from one room to another. If I'm washing I'm hands in the bathroom I might wash the mirror; OR wipe down the counter; OR something else similar - whatever can be quickly while I'm there; and/or I'll move something back to the room in which it belongs.

I've done that for years and it is a life-saver!

The other thing we have recently come down hard on is all the details to putting things away when we're done - NO exceptions (let in one exception and soon it's all exceptions! ). If we can maintain these two things (little things as we are in a room; and really, truly putting things away) then when catastrophe strikes, the aftermath won't be SO bad.


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Posted: Jan 08 2010 at 11:27pm | IP Logged Quote violingirl

I have a basket on the second floor and one on the main floor. As I find things around the main floor that really belong upstairs I put them in the basket and the next time I go upstairs I take the basket with me and put that stuff away. Same kind of thing for the upstairs basket. I figure that if I have to go up and down the stairs several times a day anyway I might as well put a few things away while I'm at it.

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Posted: Jan 09 2010 at 12:11am | IP Logged Quote Chris V

CatholicMommy wrote:
Doing little cleaning throughout the day - as I'm in a room or going from one room to another. If I'm washing I'm hands in the bathroom I might wash the mirror; OR wipe down the counter; OR something else similar - whatever can be quickly while I'm there; and/or I'll move something back to the room in which it belongs
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Amazing how effective this is at keeping the house from turning into a catastrophe! A little bit here, a tad bit there, that's exactly how I manage my house!

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I have a basket on the second floor and one on the main floor. As I find things around the main floor that really belong upstairs I put them in the basket and the next time I go upstairs I take the basket with me and put that stuff away. Same kind of thing for the upstairs basket. I figure that if I have to go up and down the stairs several times a day anyway I might as well put a few things away while I'm at it
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*ME* too I love this system ~ fantastically simple, completely practical, and so easy! This works particularly well for me when it comes to laundry that needs to be put away in the bedrooms. Everytime I go upstairs, I never go empty-handed.

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Posted: Jan 09 2010 at 5:37am | IP Logged Quote stellamaris

Drink coffee!

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Posted: Jan 09 2010 at 7:08am | IP Logged Quote jenk

Lately, it's been asking my boys to pick up things I've dropped... my belly's too big for me to easily reach the floor

I truly lack consistency but strive for it.

I love the basket idea, though, and may adopt here.

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Posted: Jan 09 2010 at 8:21am | IP Logged Quote Mimip

1. I have a bag in the car with essentials: Diapers,wipes and desitin underwear, change of clothes for the youngest two and in the winter sweaters and the rest of the year sunscreen

2. As soon as the groceries are unpacked, the reuseable bags go back in the car. This helps me cause I never know when I'll have time to do groceries and the bags are already in the car waiting for me!

3. I make the bed as soon as I get out of it. This way if the rest of the house is an explosion, at least my bed is made. (BTW this is because growing up this was the only chore I had in my house so having a made bed goes a long way to my internal peace )



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Posted: Jan 09 2010 at 8:24am | IP Logged Quote amyable

Well, I'm not 100% consistent in anything, but...

*starting a load of laundry and emptying the dishwasher first thing. If those are done super early, the rest of the day is able to flow so much better

*I have a watch with three alarm settings. I set mine to go off at 8 AM (when I make sure I've done the above, pray, and get the kids rolling for school), Noon (pray, put the toddler down for a nap if he isn't already, think about the afternoon and if I'm really on the ball -- dinner), and 5 PM (pray, panic about dinner I mean start dinner prep/clean up of house, get kids off the Wii )

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Posted: Jan 09 2010 at 10:37am | IP Logged Quote Chris V

stellamaris wrote:
Drink coffee!


Most definitely!

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I always do the dishes. Nothing makes me grumpier than a messy kitchen in the morning.

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Posted: Jan 09 2010 at 1:05pm | IP Logged Quote Sarah M

stellamaris wrote:
Drink coffee!


Girl, you are singin' my song!!!    

ETA: Actually, one thing I do consistently is prepare the coffee maker the night before; this makes my getting-out-of-bed moment quite a bit easier. I know that if I can only move my body to the kitchen and flip a switch, I will be oh-so-much-closer to my first cup.
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I *always* make sure we have a large supply of the 2 essentials: apple juice and diapers. Oh, and TP. Not much can disrupt us like having to run to the store for one of those things!

Other thing is never go to bed until the coffee machine is ready and the milk pails are clean, sterilized and ready. It's hard enough to go out and milk in the snow as it is, if I have to wash the pails before I head out it really puts me in a mood
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Chris V wrote:
Everytime I go upstairs, I never go empty-handed.


This is exactly what I constantly tell my husband: "Are you heading upstairs? Don't go empty-handed!"

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*starting a load of laundry and emptying the dishwasher first thing. If those are done super early, the rest of the day is able to flow so much better


This is exactly what I try to do in the mornings--it really helps to jump start my days.

Nothing remarkable, but every day before my husband gets home, the kids and I do a tidy of the downstairs (kitchen, family room, bathroom, and dining area) and I set the table for dinner (we eat as soon as he arrives). It makes the house so much more inviting. I do a second tidy right before my husband and I head upstairs for the night--it is so nice to wake up to a straightened house.

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Quick tidy every day!! Saves my sanity!

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Have a menu planned for the whole week. If I know what I am cooking for each meal of the day, the rest seems to flow easier.

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