Oh, Dearest Mother, Sweetest Virgin of Altagracia, our Patroness. You are our Advocate and to you we recommend our needs. You are our Teacher and like disciples we come to learn from the example of your holy life. You are our Mother, and like children, we come to offer you all of the love of our hearts. Receive, dearest Mother, our offerings and listen attentively to our supplications. Amen.



Active Topics || Favorites || Member List || Search || About Us || Help || Register || Login
Living Literature (Forum Locked Forum Locked)
 4Real Forums : Living Literature
Subject Topic: Fairy Tale help Post ReplyPost New Topic
Author
Message << Prev Topic | Next Topic >>
Maryan
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Jan 02 2007
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 3145
Posted: July 11 2007 at 11:51am | IP Logged Quote Maryan

My oldest is going into first grade next year and I'm leaning towards Mater Amabilis for most subjects (still working on THAT project)...However, one of the books recommended is Andrew Lang's Blue book fairy tale book (which seems to get rave reviews from lots of sides)...

There was a link to his stories on-line and the first one I checked was Little Red Riding Hood... where she gets eaten by the Wolf. End of story.

When I previously brought home gory fairy tales from the library, I was asked by my husband to choose otherwise because he really dislikes reading these gory stories to the boys!

So I'm wondering... does anyone have fairy tale stories that are good, but the main character doesn't get eaten in the end? (I've also tried a couple of searches here without luck -- so if you know an old thread, could you link me there??) Thanks!

__________________
Maryan
Mom to 6 boys & 1 girl: JP('01), B ('03), M('05), L('06), Ph ('08), M ('10), James born 5/1/12
A Lee in the Woudes
Back to Top View Maryan's Profile Search for other posts by Maryan
 
Cheryl
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star


Joined: Feb 20 2005
Location: Massachusetts
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 978
Posted: July 11 2007 at 12:59pm | IP Logged Quote Cheryl

I enjoyed reading the fairy tales listed in the Real Learning booklist a few years ago. I can't remember if they were gory or not though. I doubt they were. Sorry, this isn't very helpful.

__________________
Cheryl
Wife to Bob ('97)
Mom to Matthew 13, Joseph 11, Sarah 10, Rachel 6, Hannah almost 4 and Mary 1
Back to Top View Cheryl's Profile Search for other posts by Cheryl Visit Cheryl's Homepage
 
Maryan
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Jan 02 2007
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 3145
Posted: July 12 2007 at 6:43am | IP Logged Quote Maryan

No that is helpful! Perhaps that's what I'll have to do -- check out individual tales from the library (too pricey to buy them all). I was hoping for a big collection type book sans gore.

If I walked into a bookstore, I could see firsthand what a book is like. But with four little guys, I don't do that... ever. It's either the library or amazon.com!!

__________________
Maryan
Mom to 6 boys & 1 girl: JP('01), B ('03), M('05), L('06), Ph ('08), M ('10), James born 5/1/12
A Lee in the Woudes
Back to Top View Maryan's Profile Search for other posts by Maryan
 
Cheryl
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star


Joined: Feb 20 2005
Location: Massachusetts
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 978
Posted: July 12 2007 at 6:58am | IP Logged Quote Cheryl

Our library had almost all of the books. We also have A Treasury of Children's Literature that I like, but I think I prefer using individual picture books. I just checked and Red Riding Hood lives, but you may consider it gory. She does get eaten by the wolf. Then the hunter cuts the wolf open, takes the girl and the grandmother out, puts stones in, then sews up the wolf.

In the Three Little Pigs, the wolf runs away and is never seen again at the end.

__________________
Cheryl
Wife to Bob ('97)
Mom to Matthew 13, Joseph 11, Sarah 10, Rachel 6, Hannah almost 4 and Mary 1
Back to Top View Cheryl's Profile Search for other posts by Cheryl Visit Cheryl's Homepage
 
Maryan
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Jan 02 2007
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 3145
Posted: July 12 2007 at 7:14am | IP Logged Quote Maryan

Thanks for the link Cheryl! And for checking Red Riding Hood... in my mind that's at least a happy ending (but it is gory!!) and good overcomes evil. Whereas there are many additions with gore and no happy ending -- and evil wins?

I guess I need to discuss at what ages and what amount of gore (if given a happy ending) would these versions of fairy tales be acceptable to my dh.   

__________________
Maryan
Mom to 6 boys & 1 girl: JP('01), B ('03), M('05), L('06), Ph ('08), M ('10), James born 5/1/12
A Lee in the Woudes
Back to Top View Maryan's Profile Search for other posts by Maryan
 
vmalott
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Sept 15 2006
Location: Ohio
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 536
Posted: July 12 2007 at 8:28am | IP Logged Quote vmalott

I wasn't fond of Lang's fairy books for that reason, too. If you visit this Ambleside Online page, there are some helpful links to other fairy tale books that can be substituted as well as a list near the bottom to tales in Lang's Blue Fairy book that aren't as disturbing or gory.

I'm with Cheryl and much prefer individual beautifully illustrated fairy tales.

Valerie

__________________
Valerie
Mom to Julia ('94), John ('96), Lizzy ('98), Connor ('01), Drew ('02), Cate ('04), Aidan ('08) and three saints in heaven
Seven Times the Fun
Back to Top View vmalott's Profile Search for other posts by vmalott Visit vmalott's Homepage
 
SuzanneG
Forum Moderator
Forum Moderator
Avatar

Joined: June 17 2006
Location: Idaho
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 5465
Posted: July 12 2007 at 9:22am | IP Logged Quote SuzanneG

Maryan ~
I think we have an oldest the same age, and I'm going to be using Mater Amabilis too!

I compared a bunch of the fairy tale books a couple of years ago, and also wasn't crazy about the Lang versions.

Strangely enough, I found Barnes and Noble's
Grimm's Complete Fairy Tales to be my preferred.

They describe virtuous behavior and characteristics, and focused on good overcoming evil. And, they read nicely.

I believe with Mater Amabilis, the read aloud fairy tales are made to be done as a "read aloud"......without pictures. That doesn't mean, of course, that we can't read all kinds of fairy tale picture books (cuz there are so many beautiful ones!). Or, simply forgo the read aloud fairy tales as part of the MA curriculum. Just making the distinction.....read aloud vs. picture book.

My .02

__________________
Suzanne in ID
Wife to Pete
Mom of 7 (Girls - 14, 12, 11, 9, 7 and Boys - 4, 1)
Back to Top View SuzanneG's Profile Search for other posts by SuzanneG
 
Maryan
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Jan 02 2007
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 3145
Posted: July 13 2007 at 6:36am | IP Logged Quote Maryan

Valerie and Suzanne -- thank you! These are all great suggestions. And Suzanne, I'm still chuckling about our similar, but different lives!

__________________
Maryan
Mom to 6 boys & 1 girl: JP('01), B ('03), M('05), L('06), Ph ('08), M ('10), James born 5/1/12
A Lee in the Woudes
Back to Top View Maryan's Profile Search for other posts by Maryan
 
jugglingpaynes
Forum Rookie
Forum Rookie
Avatar

Joined: May 27 2007
Location: New York
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 83
Posted: July 13 2007 at 11:53am | IP Logged Quote jugglingpaynes

Just offering a little insight. I've done lots of study on fairy tales. Most fairy tales and nursery rhymes were originally stories and ditties shared among adults. When they were first told, people weren't that concerned about what their children heard or saw. When people like the Brothers Grimm and Andrew Lang started writing them down, many became cautionary tales, meant to frighten children into behaving. Red Riding Hood warned little girls to beware the "wolves" in society, lest they be devoured. I don't know the B&N version of Grimm's Fairy Tales, I do know that many classic Grimm tales, like Cinderella and Snow White, end with some form of mutilation to the wicked stepsisters and stepmother to show that evil behavior gets punished in the end.
When your kids are older, they might enjoy delving into the historical significance of fairy tales. For now, there are plenty of mild interpretations of all the tales that you can avoid the gory bits. Personally, I always found the Lang and Grimm versions to be somewhat boring when I was a kid.
Please don't change "The Gingerbread Man" though. It's a cookie. Cookies are meant to be eaten.
Peace and Laughter,

__________________
Cristina
(mom of MayBabies dd15,ds12,dd6)
Home Spun Juggling
Comics, Coffee and Catches
Back to Top View jugglingpaynes's Profile Search for other posts by jugglingpaynes
 
Maryan
Forum All-Star
Forum All-Star
Avatar

Joined: Jan 02 2007
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 3145
Posted: July 15 2007 at 5:21pm | IP Logged Quote Maryan

Thanks Cristina

__________________
Maryan
Mom to 6 boys & 1 girl: JP('01), B ('03), M('05), L('06), Ph ('08), M ('10), James born 5/1/12
A Lee in the Woudes
Back to Top View Maryan's Profile Search for other posts by Maryan
 
jugglingpaynes
Forum Rookie
Forum Rookie
Avatar

Joined: May 27 2007
Location: New York
Online Status: Offline
Posts: 83
Posted: July 16 2007 at 9:45am | IP Logged Quote jugglingpaynes

Maryan wrote:
Thanks Cristina


You are very welcome. It's always nice to be able to use some of the trivial facts I've stored in the corners of my brain!

Peace and Laughter,

__________________
Cristina
(mom of MayBabies dd15,ds12,dd6)
Home Spun Juggling
Comics, Coffee and Catches
Back to Top View jugglingpaynes's Profile Search for other posts by jugglingpaynes
 

Sorry, you cannot post a reply to this topic.
This forum has been locked by a forum administrator.

  [Add this topic to My Favorites] Post ReplyPost New Topic
Printable version Printable version

Forum Jump
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot create polls in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum

Hosting and Support provided by theNetSmith.com