Oh, Dearest Mother, Sweetest Virgin of Altagracia, our Patroness. You are our Advocate and to you we recommend our needs. You are our Teacher and like disciples we come to learn from the example of your holy life. You are our Mother, and like children, we come to offer you all of the love of our hearts. Receive, dearest Mother, our offerings and listen attentively to our supplications. Amen.



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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 6:10pm | IP Logged Quote guitarnan

Please pray especially for her husband, Ben, currently at UVA hospital in bad shape. We really don't know what happened. They were driving and an accident occurred; Mary died there and Ben was airlifted to UVA. They just celebrated their 50th anniversary and Mary's 70th birthday this summer. I know Mary is at home with Jesus, and I'm so thankful she didn't suffer long, but I know Ben will need lots of prayers. I haven't been able to tell my husband about this yet; he's going to be devastated. Ben and Mary were the most wonderful examples of Catholic marriage, parenting and hospitality. I know it would comfort their children to know you're praying for them both.

Update 9/13:

Ben is doing OK, considering everything. He has broken ribs, leg injuries and lots of bruises. All four of his sons have arrived at his bedside. He knows that Mary is with Jesus; I don't know how he's handling this news. No one knows yet when he can leave the hospital, so any funeral plans are on hold for now.

Please, please pray for him. I just can't imagine losing a beloved spouse so tragically.

Your prayers have helped sustain me over the last day. It's been very hard to go on with daily tasks, but I know without doubt that Mary is in Heaven and praying for Ben and her sons. Thanks for all the prayers.

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 6:12pm | IP Logged Quote MaryM

How sad, they will be in my prayers.

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 6:15pm | IP Logged Quote SuzC

This is so sad. Thank you for letting us pray for them and you and your husband as well.

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 6:19pm | IP Logged Quote Jen L.

How very sad. Praying here.

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 6:24pm | IP Logged Quote Mary G

Praying for Ben and all who knew this kind woman....

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 6:30pm | IP Logged Quote stacykay

How awful...
My prayers are with Ben and all the family and friends.
Praying for his dear wife, also, God rest her soul.

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 6:40pm | IP Logged Quote JennGM

How terrible! Prayers for Mary's soul, Ben's healing and for all who are touched by their lives.

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 6:47pm | IP Logged Quote Caroline

Prayers for Mary's soul and for Ben's health

I'm so sorry.

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 7:08pm | IP Logged Quote Lissa

Oh, how sad! I am praying. UVA is close to me--is there any way I could be of help to the family?

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 7:13pm | IP Logged Quote Taffy

Keeping Mary and Ben in my prayers


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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 7:14pm | IP Logged Quote jdostalik

Nancy,
How terrible...we are praying here in Texas...


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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 7:52pm | IP Logged Quote Cici

Praying right now.

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 8:01pm | IP Logged Quote momwats8

I am soo sorry - may she rest in peace.

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 8:09pm | IP Logged Quote Donna Marie

I am so very sorry! We will keep everyone in our prayers!!
May Mary rest in peace!

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 8:16pm | IP Logged Quote stefoodie

Praying, Nancy.

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 8:46pm | IP Logged Quote kristina

Nancy,

I will offer prayers for the repose of Mary's soul and for the healing and comfort of Ben this evening.

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Praying here. How sad.

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Posted: Sept 12 2006 at 10:09pm | IP Logged Quote Patty LeVasseur

Praying for Mary and Ben. How very sad.

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Praying!

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