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Paula in MN
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Yesterday afternoon we received the custody evaluators report.
It is not good.
I need to prepare to say goodbye to my son, goodbye to homeschooling him, goodbye to the current way of life for our family.
I don't know if I'll be back on here or not.
You are all so wonderful and giving, and it is just too hard to pretend everything is okay when it's not.
It stinks that I can't tell you all what is happening, that I can't share it with any of my friends - and that is what you have all become.
There is so much more that I want to say. I can't. I'm crying to hard to type.
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Lara Sauer
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Prayers for you and your family.
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Oh dearest Paula...know that in your silence, our hearts break with you, and that in your tears, we bear your pain too. Even though we do not know all that is happening, we know the pain of loss you feel is devastating, and we will not let you go without much, much prayer support.
Know that you arei n our hearts and we will continue to lift you up as you walk this tough road.
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Oh Paula, prayers here for you.
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Paula, I am so so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. Please know that you are in my prayers.
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Oh Paula - my heart is breaking over hearing this news. I'm just without words. What pain!
Colleen is right - we share in your tears and in your pain and we're standing right next to you at the Foot of this Cross whether you are here or not!
I'm offering up for you, dearest Paula!  ...and my heart is breaking with yours.
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Praying for you Paula
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Oh Paula, words cannot tell you how heavy my heart is for you right now. You may not be able to be present in this forum but you will remain here in our hearts! Come back soon!
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Dear Paula - I am with your right now - I cannot find any words. I will keep storming heaven for you.
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Paula, my heart is breaking for you!! Know that you in be in my prayers and that I do consider you a friend also.
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Paula, my heart aches for you. You are in my prayers.
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Oh, no. I'm so sorry. I can't understand why this is happening. Of course I will pray and pray...
Please know that your presence here has always been a blessing, especially for me...it's a privilege to pray for you and to be a part of your journey. You don't have to pretend everything is okay - we know it isn't - being yourself is just fine.
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Paula, my heart breaks for you! I am so sorry and am praying mightily for your situation. God is still present and working!
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Paula, my prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Praying very hard for you and your family, Paula.
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Paula, my heart is breaking for you. Many prayers will continue for you...oh, I just don't even know what to say...all my love to you, friend.
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praying...
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Paula, praying for you and your family
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Praying for you.
I am so sorry.
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Oh, Paula... I am so, so sorry. I will continue to pray and sacrifice for you and your children. There are no words...
Peace,
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