Author | |
4 lads mom Forum All-Star
Joined: Sept 26 2006
Online Status: Offline Posts: 1944
|
Posted: Nov 07 2008 at 8:04am | IP Logged
|
|
|
HI Friends,
Lily had her first post op visit...and she has a hole in her new palate. The surgeon said not to despair, that this could close, and it might not go all the way through all of the layers......it looks likely that it is all the way through to the nose, from what I see....since the drainage out her nose, (sorry for graphic medical yuck), is now coming out of her mouth, hummm, probably a straight shot through that handy little hole. To make sure we have extra fun....the surgeon then said she has to wear the arm restraints for FOUR more weeks, not two, to try and ward off completely destroying what palate she has. This too shall pass...albeit, slowly...but pass it will.
Thanks for your prayers, keep them coming! Also, Lily's big brother who shares the same syndrome, has a nasal endoscopy next week....they will be scoping him through his nose, just to the back of his throat, (which hasn't reassured him at all), and videotaping his palate as he talks, to see the extent of his palate issues. Poor guy, the whole thing with Lily has rattled his cage, he was scared when he saw her post op, and first thing out of his mouth was, "Is THAT what I looked like after my palate repairs?" Followed, quickly by, "I am NOT having any more surgeries!!" He is such a sweet boy....pray for his anxiety!!!
God Bless!! You all are in my prayers!!!!
UPDATE--It is late, but I wanted to let you know your prayers were answered in a big way.....the test my ds had today was not bad AT ALL, he tolerated it without even crying...was very brave..and it looks like his palate is much better than we anticipated. He will likely need more surgery on his jaw at some point, but it isn't in the near future, and neither is a palate repair...just a lot of speech therapy.....whew!!
Lily did fine, her hearing is normal now with her tubes . I had a long talk with her ENT about the whole decannulation process timeline...(getting her trach out), and the first thing is surgery in Jan. to take out the scar tissue blocking her airway above the actual trach site. The whole process of decannulation might be a very long one, and she could end up needing her jaw lengthened like her big brother did......hope not, but it is a real possibility.
God Bless you....I am feeling very thankful tonight!!!! We have good docs, and a plan.....
__________________ Mom of four brave lads and one sweet lassie
Scenes From This and That
|
Back to Top |
|
|
missionfamily Forum All-Star
Joined: April 10 2007 Location: Louisiana
Online Status: Offline Posts: 1859
|
Posted: Nov 07 2008 at 8:06am | IP Logged
|
|
|
Oh, we are praying for Lily and your whole sweet family.
__________________ Colleen
dh Greg
mom to Quinn,Gabriel, Brendan,Evan, Kolbe, and sweet St. Bryce
Footprints on the Fridge
|
Back to Top |
|
|
nissag Forum All-Star
Joined: Nov 23 2006 Location: Massachusetts
Online Status: Offline Posts: 1511
|
Posted: Nov 07 2008 at 8:24am | IP Logged
|
|
|
Prayers continue. How miserable to have to have restraints. Can't be much fun for you, either, Mama.
Blessings,
__________________ Nissa
Deacon's wife, mother of eleven, farmer, teacher, creator, cook.
At Home With the Gadbois Family
|
Back to Top |
|
|
cathhomeschool Board Moderator
Texas Bluebonnets
Joined: Jan 26 2005 Location: Texas
Online Status: Offline Posts: 7303
|
Posted: Nov 07 2008 at 8:32am | IP Logged
|
|
|
I'm so sorry! Poor things! It's so stressful to "know what's coming." :-(
Praying for strength for all of you, for a quick recovery for Lily, for peace and courage for brother. May the Holy Spirit send you all the graces you need to fly through the coming weeks.
__________________ Janette (4 boys - 22, 21, 15, 14)
|
Back to Top |
|
|
Booksnbabes Forum All-Star
Joined: July 20 2008 Location: N/A
Online Status: Offline Posts: 4141
|
Posted: Nov 07 2008 at 11:14am | IP Logged
|
|
|
Praying for both children (and you and dh!) as you continue your struggles! Poor babies!
__________________ Wife to wonderful DH, mom to SIX beautiful gifts from God!
|
Back to Top |
|
|
teachingmyown Forum All-Star
Joined: Feb 20 2005 Location: Virginia
Online Status: Offline Posts: 5128
|
Posted: Nov 07 2008 at 11:20am | IP Logged
|
|
|
Oh Mama! Lots of prayers and hugs coming for you and your babies! What a cross for your family to shoulder!
Lily and her big brother are at the top of my girls' prayer intentions every night.
__________________ In Christ,
Molly
wife to Court & mom to ds '91, dd '96, ds '97, dds '99, '01, '03, '06, and dss '07 and 01/20/11
Remembering Today
|
Back to Top |
|
|
Lisa R Forum All-Star
Joined: May 29 2005 Location: Ohio
Online Status: Offline Posts: 789
|
Posted: Nov 07 2008 at 4:34pm | IP Logged
|
|
|
You come to my mind every single day. We are most definitely still praying. Thanks for the update. Now we can add some specifics to our request.
God bless you all.
__________________ God Bless!
Lisa, married to my best friend, Ray and loving my blessings Joshua (17)and Jacob(15), Hannah(7) and Rachel (5)!Holy Family Academy
|
Back to Top |
|
|
Carole N. Forum All-Star
Joined: Oct 28 2006 Location: Wales
Online Status: Offline Posts: 4484
|
Posted: Nov 07 2008 at 5:16pm | IP Logged
|
|
|
Praying for you all!
__________________ Carole ... in Wales
|
Back to Top |
|
|
Jen L. Forum All-Star
Joined: Oct 18 2005 Location: Virginia
Online Status: Offline Posts: 2148
|
Posted: Nov 07 2008 at 7:14pm | IP Logged
|
|
|
Praying here
__________________ Jen
dh Klete,ds (8/95),dd (12/97), dd (11/00), and ^2^ in heaven
"...the best state in which to glorify God is our actual state; the best grace is that of the moment..." St. Peter Eymard
|
Back to Top |
|
|
Philothea Forum All-Star
Joined: Aug 15 2006 Location: Virginia
Online Status: Offline Posts: 824
|
Posted: Nov 07 2008 at 7:37pm | IP Logged
|
|
|
Praying!
|
Back to Top |
|
|
wifemommy Forum All-Star
Joined: July 10 2006
Online Status: Offline Posts: 732
|
Posted: Nov 07 2008 at 9:41pm | IP Logged
|
|
|
Praying
|
Back to Top |
|
|
Mackfam Board Moderator
Non Nobis
Joined: April 24 2006 Location: Alabama
Online Status: Offline Posts: 14656
|
Posted: Nov 08 2008 at 4:31pm | IP Logged
|
|
|
We continue to pray for your beautiful family - what trials you all are being offered. Your acceptance is a thing of beauty. I pray for your mommy heart - mine breaks when my children must suffer.
__________________ Jen Mackintosh
Wife to Rob, mom to dd 19, ds 16, ds 11, dd 8, and dd 3
Wildflowers and Marbles
|
Back to Top |
|
|
Willa Forum All-Star
Joined: Jan 28 2005 Location: California
Online Status: Offline Posts: 3881
|
Posted: Nov 08 2008 at 9:32pm | IP Logged
|
|
|
I'm praying, 4Lads and Lily's mom. Ditto what Jennifer said.
__________________ AMDG
Willa
hsing boys ages 11, 14, almost 18 (+ 4 homeschool grads ages 20 to 27)
Take Up and Read
|
Back to Top |
|
|
LisaR Forum All-Star
Joined: Feb 07 2005 Location: N/A
Online Status: Offline Posts: 2226
|
Posted: Nov 08 2008 at 9:42pm | IP Logged
|
|
|
Praying for Lily, and your entire family!! May the weeks pass quickly and may significant healing occur!
__________________ Lisa
dh Tim '92
Joseph 17
Paul 14
Thomas 11
Dominic 8
Maria Gianna 5
Isaac Vincent 9/21/10! and...
many little saints in heaven!
|
Back to Top |
|
|
aussieannie Forum All-Star
Joined: May 21 2006 Location: Australia
Online Status: Offline Posts: 7251
|
Posted: Nov 10 2008 at 2:51am | IP Logged
|
|
|
Praying for you all, you are one awesome mum!
__________________ Under Her Starry Mantle
Spiritual Motherhood for Priests
Blessed with 3 boys & 3 girls!
|
Back to Top |
|
|
jdostalik Forum All-Star
Joined: Feb 15 2005 Location: Texas
Online Status: Offline Posts: 2935
|
Posted: Nov 10 2008 at 8:53am | IP Logged
|
|
|
Many, many prayers for Lily, her big brother and for you all during this time. You are a beautiful witness to God's love mirrored through a mother's heart. Much love to you!
__________________ God Bless,
Jennifer in TX
wife to Bill, mom to six here on earth and eight in heaven.
Let the Little Ones Come
|
Back to Top |
|
|
4 lads mom Forum All-Star
Joined: Sept 26 2006
Online Status: Offline Posts: 1944
|
Posted: Nov 11 2008 at 10:17pm | IP Logged
|
|
|
Update at top.....thanks!!
__________________ Mom of four brave lads and one sweet lassie
Scenes From This and That
|
Back to Top |
|
|
hylabrook1 Forum Moderator
Joined: July 09 2006
Online Status: Offline Posts: 5980
|
Posted: Nov 12 2008 at 7:11am | IP Logged
|
|
|
Giving thanks with you and praying for continued healing.
Peace,
Nancy
|
Back to Top |
|
|
jdostalik Forum All-Star
Joined: Feb 15 2005 Location: Texas
Online Status: Offline Posts: 2935
|
Posted: Nov 12 2008 at 7:43am | IP Logged
|
|
|
Thanks be to God for this good news. We are continuing to pray.
__________________ God Bless,
Jennifer in TX
wife to Bill, mom to six here on earth and eight in heaven.
Let the Little Ones Come
|
Back to Top |
|
|
teachingmyown Forum All-Star
Joined: Feb 20 2005 Location: Virginia
Online Status: Offline Posts: 5128
|
Posted: Nov 12 2008 at 9:27am | IP Logged
|
|
|
So good to hear good news about your little ones! And so good to hear the joy and peace in your "voice"! You are an incredible witness to the rest of us.
__________________ In Christ,
Molly
wife to Court & mom to ds '91, dd '96, ds '97, dds '99, '01, '03, '06, and dss '07 and 01/20/11
Remembering Today
|
Back to Top |
|
|