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Posted: Sept 18 2007 at 5:27pm | IP Logged Quote Hallie

I am happily pregnant with our fourth child! He or she is due next May. :)

Unfortunately many of my loved ones are appalled. They are against the idea of having many children and have many prejudices against large families. My mother in particular has said some extremely hurtful things. Please pray that I can accept this cross with grace and that their hearts will be opened to this new precious soul.

Updated: Thank you all so much for your prayers. I can't tell you how much strength they have given me during these difficulties with my mother. It also has helped to know that I am not the only one who has experienced things like this. Unfortunately, as expected, my news was not at all warmly received. Please keep praying! Thank you all so much.

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Posted: Sept 18 2007 at 5:49pm | IP Logged Quote Lisbet

HALLIE!!!!!!!!!!!!   YAY!!! What glorious news!! I am so so so so so so very happy for you and your family!

I am so sorry you are dealing with negativity from family. I am all to familiar with it, esp. from my mother. I will pray that you have the grace to deal with it properly and that your mothers heart be softened.

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Posted: Sept 18 2007 at 5:58pm | IP Logged Quote joann10


CONGRATULATIONS!!!
A lot of us have been in this position and I will be offering prayers for you and your family.
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Posted: Sept 18 2007 at 8:11pm | IP Logged Quote Carole N.

Congratulations! What wonderful news. I will pray for you and your family and your extended family!

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Posted: Sept 18 2007 at 9:47pm | IP Logged Quote Angie Mc

HAPPY NEWS, Hallie! Thank you so much for sharing!!!! Please hold in your heart that your news is *objectively* good - miraculous - joyful - purposeful - right - perfect - glorious - and infinitely more! I will pray for those whose subjective feelings do not currently match God's Truth . It is a privilege to pray for you and your precious new one.

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Posted: Sept 18 2007 at 9:47pm | IP Logged Quote Angie Mc

And...welcome to the 4Real board, Hallie .

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Posted: Sept 18 2007 at 10:38pm | IP Logged Quote snowbabiesmom

You are God's child too...Your goal is to serve Him and He will and has rewarded you! I will pray for you and this precious one!

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Posted: Sept 19 2007 at 5:53am | IP Logged Quote Ruth

Congratulations!!! I will keep you, your family and the baby in my prayers.

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Posted: Sept 19 2007 at 7:08am | IP Logged Quote hylabrook1

Congratulations, Hallie!

I am sorry for the flak you are getting from your family. On some level I'm sure they are just worrying about you. Having four (or more) children is probably something they can't imagine doing themselves. Because they would find it overwhelming, they worry that it will be too much on you. Unfortunately, people seldom express this kind of thing directly or tactfully. Instead they wind up saying things that are intrusive or hurtful.

I will pray for their acceptance of your joyous news and for you to be patient with them.

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Congratulations!!! Praying for you and your family.

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Posted: Sept 19 2007 at 7:34am | IP Logged Quote stefoodie

Prayers for you, Hallie.

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Posted: Sept 19 2007 at 9:36am | IP Logged Quote kingvozzo

Congratulations, Hallie. This is wonderful news!

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Posted: Sept 19 2007 at 10:39pm | IP Logged Quote teachingmom

Congratulations, Hallie! Praying for grace for you to handle the crosses that can come with being open to life. I'm sorry you are going through this in the midst of such joyous news.

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