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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 8:50am | IP Logged Quote Ruth

My dd 17 read on her IBS forum about this woman. Please pray for her. I'd like to have the right words for her. What can you all suggest? Here is her post:

I am going to terminate my pregnancy, my doctor has advised me to because I am in a high risk group. I've started menopause and have had several miscarriages and other factors.

What impact would this have on my IBS-C?

Here is the link:

woman having abortion

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 8:54am | IP Logged Quote jdostalik

Praying for this poor woman and her unborn baby...

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 8:56am | IP Logged Quote JennGM

Praying, Ruth, for the woman, and that horrible doctor giving that kind of "advice."

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 9:00am | IP Logged Quote Karen E.

Oh, my heart aches to hear this. Praying here ....

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 10:16am | IP Logged Quote momwats8

prayers for the woman and this unborn baby!

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 10:19am | IP Logged Quote Carole N.

Praying here as well ... what a horrible doctor.

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 10:23am | IP Logged Quote nissag

Oh no...    Praying for them both - so tragic.

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 10:33am | IP Logged Quote Jeanna

This just breaks my heart.      I will be praying. Sorry I can't think of anything good to say. My brain is in zone mode. If I come up with anything, I'll let you know.

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 10:53am | IP Logged Quote Ruth

This is the info we got from Birthright. My dd posted it on the message board. Hopefully, she won't get kicked off, but, so be it.

10% of post-abortive women suffer immediate complications such as hemorrhage, cervical injuries, convulstions, endotoxic shock, infection, embolism, chronic abdominal pain, perforated uterus, anesthesia complications, and cervical injury. Twenty percent of these complications are life threatening and could cause death within a week of the abortion

Post abortive women also suffer emotionally and psychologically. They exhibit multiple symptoms of post traumatic stress disorder including: Clinical Depression, Anxiety, Substance Abuse, Eating disorders, and Sleep disorders. Abortion hurts and you deserve better.

Women who choose to abort instead of going on with their pregnancy are:
3.5 times more likely to die in the following year
1.6 times more likely to die of natural causes
6-7 times more likely to die of suicide
4 times more likely to die of injuries related to accidents

Another study found that post-abortive women had a 62% higher risk of death from all cuases for at least 8 years after their pregnancies.

Be healthy! Take care of yourself and your baby. With IBS your body doesn't need the physical and psychological trauma of abortion.


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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 11:13am | IP Logged Quote ladybugs

Well-done, Ruth!

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 11:49am | IP Logged Quote Donna

Praying, praying, praying. So glad you posted those stats.
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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 12:09pm | IP Logged Quote Ruth

Someone from the forum wrote back, and wanted to know where we got the info. from. Just in case anyone ever needs this, it came form Elliot Institue. Click on "Research."

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 1:36pm | IP Logged Quote jdostalik

I'm so glad that your daughter posted those stats for this mother. She deserves to know the truth. Many prayers continuing...

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 2:37pm | IP Logged Quote Paula in MN

This is heart-wrenching. I'm praying here.

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 2:51pm | IP Logged Quote Jane Ramsey

It looks like the forum deleted the info and the pro-life comments...
I'll be praying!
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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 3:53pm | IP Logged Quote Ruth

Yes, they said the comments my daughter made were offensive. All she posted were the stats and the link to the Elliot Institute. I am very proud of her, though

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 4:10pm | IP Logged Quote nissag

What a sad world we live in when defending life is offensive and defending death is desirable and supportive.

I'm proud of your dd, too!

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 4:11pm | IP Logged Quote Jeanna

Your dd did a courageous thing. It must have hurt to be told her post was offensive. I hope my dd's will have her courage when they are her age.   

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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 4:31pm | IP Logged Quote kingvozzo

burneweb wrote:
Yes, they said the comments my daughter made were offensive.

How is this offensive?!?!?!


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Posted: Feb 07 2007 at 4:34pm | IP Logged Quote Ruth

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Be healthy! Take care of yourself and your baby. With IBS your body doesn't need the physical and psychological trauma of abortion.


I have no idea how this is offensive This is a scary world   

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