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Posted: Nov 24 2010 at 2:41pm | IP Logged Quote Ruth

My heart is aching at the thought of not having any more children. My baby just turned 3 this month and I turned 41 this summer. My husband is perfectly at peace with not having any more (we do practice NFP so there is always hope!) but my desire just keeps getting stronger. I finally gave away all my maternity clothes and most of the baby clothes last night and it was one of the hardest things I have ever done. I haven't stopped crying all day. Please pray that our hearts will be united to God's will.

Our Lady of La Leche, pray for us! St. Andrew, pray for us!



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Posted: Nov 24 2010 at 3:16pm | IP Logged Quote stellamaris

Dear Ruth, I will certainly pray for you to have peace. I will pray that you will be able to cast your cares upon Him who cares for you so deeply. If it is indeed His Will that you have no more children, then you know already that it is the very best thing. But I do think you might have some hope in having more children. After giving away all my maternity and baby clothes at 42, thinking I was certainly done with babies, I had twins at almost 45 and then another baby shortly before I turned 46! So there might be some hope that the desire you have for another child will be fulfilled. Be at peace. God holds the future.

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Posted: Nov 24 2010 at 4:25pm | IP Logged Quote Paula in MN

Ruth, I will definitely pray for your intentions.

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Posted: Nov 24 2010 at 5:09pm | IP Logged Quote guitarnan

Ruth, I'm praying for you.

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I will be keeping you in my prayers, Ruth....
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Posted: Nov 24 2010 at 5:52pm | IP Logged Quote SeaStar

Oh, Ruth.... it is always so sad to think of no more babies. Will we ever stop wanting them? God has given you such a heart for loving. I pray that He will also give you peace

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Posted: Nov 24 2010 at 5:55pm | IP Logged Quote KackyK

Prayers for you!!!!!! & cyber hugs too!!!!   

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Posted: Nov 24 2010 at 6:17pm | IP Logged Quote stefoodie

Oh Ruth... Praying for you, dear.

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Posted: Nov 24 2010 at 9:34pm | IP Logged Quote Chari

Ruth......remembering you in every Rosary!!!!

Murphy's law states: if you give the clothes away......

so, pryaing Murphy wins out this time!

...and at least for peace!

Love to you, Ruth!

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Posted: Nov 24 2010 at 11:07pm | IP Logged Quote Gloria JMJ

Praying for you Ruth and hoping Murphy wins out too .

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Posted: Nov 25 2010 at 3:45pm | IP Logged Quote Carole N.

Praying for you, Ruth!

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Praying for your heavy heart Ruth!
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Posted: Nov 26 2010 at 9:31am | IP Logged Quote Chris V

Oh Ruth. Praying for your heavy heart. Praying you be filled with peace for what ever the future holds !

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Posted: Nov 26 2010 at 11:10am | IP Logged Quote hylabrook1

Praying for you, Ruth. It sounds like you are mourning the possible end of a precious stage of your and your family's life. It is hard... May God comfort you; May His will be done, whether you have more babies or not.   

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Posted: Nov 26 2010 at 12:21pm | IP Logged Quote amyable

Praying for you, Ruth, with so much empathy. I could have written your post word for word! Except my son turned 3 in Sept.   Praying your family is united with God's will....and many

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Praying, Ruth!

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Posted: Nov 27 2010 at 11:08am | IP Logged Quote Angie Mc

Oh my friend, you know that I'm with you in this suffering . Praying!

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