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I am due to meet DD's birth mum tomorrow after 3 years of having DD in our family.  I have never met her before and there is a lot of baggage there - we are not talking about a truly relinquished child in the American infant adoption sense, and I have a lot of emotions I am processing and am feeling that I will be pretty unsupported by the social workers in attendance who seem to think they are her heroes.  If you can, please pray that I will think much, speak wisely, be able to get the answers for DD we want and be able to show Christ's love to Birth mum regardless of how I feel.  And that we will be safe and continue to be safe, with no reprecussions to our security through this meeting.  Thanks.
 
 
 Update: Thank you so much for your prayers.  I could really and truly feel them and felt very supported and "upheld".  I have some additional security worries now, actually, but it went well and I have some answers   
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Praying, Lucy. This sounds like a very difficult situation all around.   
 
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Praying. 
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I am absolutely praying for you and for the intentions surrounding this situation, Lucy!   
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Oh wow, what a difficult situation!  Praying that the Spirit will be working mightily on all involved.     
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Adding my prayers...
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Praying, Lucy.    
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You know I'm praying for you, dear    .
 
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Holding you in prayer Lucy   
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Many prayers!
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Praying, Lucy!!!!!
 
 
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Dear Lucy praying for all your intentions regarding this situation...   
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Praying, Lucy!
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praying, Lucy!!
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I'm continuing to pray, Lucy. I'm glad it went okay.
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Glad it overall went well.  Will pray for your security.    
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