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wamegomom Forum Pro
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Please pray for a situation that has come up. We have 4 adopted children still living at home and have always wanted one more. China changed the rules a few years ago saying that no parents using wheelchairs may adopt. As most of you know, my dh Ed uses a wheelchair (he had a benign spinal tumor at age 23). We have kept praying and hoping. We heard yesterday of a 13 y.o. Chinese orphan who is in the States right now for treatment of serious facial burns. She ages out of the possibility of adoption early next year.
When my precious children saw her very scarred face and hand in photos, they said only the sweetest things. My 8 y.o. said "she needs to be loved, Mommy." My 11 y.o ds, who really has difficulty sharing things, volunteered to give up his room for her (that's really huge for him, really huge).
We seem to meet all the criteria except the wheelchair issue. The agency helping to find a family for her sent us the application forms and suggested a letter from our doctor saying that Ed's disability in no way hampers him from being an active and involved father. They will fax all these papers to Beijing on Monday and on Monday night the officials will read them and consider them.
PLEASE pray that the Chinese officials will have a change of heart, see this girl's plight (really tragic story) and see a loving family eager to embrace her. The agency says it all comes down to the wheelchair issue. If you could see her and read her story, your heart would break. We SO want to love her. We know that miracles happen, so would you pray for one?
Thanks so much,
Mary Alice in Kansas
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I will pray, Mary Alice! What a loving family you have!
__________________ Nancy in MD. Mom of ds (24) & dd (18); 31-year Navy wife, move coordinator and keeper of home fires. Writer and dance mom.
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Oh my goodness, MAry Alice! Praying for this intention all day today!
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Mary Alice, I will be praying for this lovely intention and this dear girl.
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My goodness Mary Alice! God love you, your family, and your most, most generous hearts! I will absolutely be praying for this precious girl, your family, and the obstacles that may stand in your way.
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Wheelchair rule
I am praying hard for you guys, Mary Alice. I can not think of a more perfect family for this little girl.
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I will be praying for your intention for sure, Mary Alice. When will you know if you will be allowed to adopt her?
Your family sounds so welcoming, how could the Chinese officials NOT see that letting you adopt her would be a good thing. Maybe they don't understand how much more "easy" it is to get around in a wheelchair in Kansas than in China?
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praying for your miracle, mary alice!
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Praying MaryAlice!
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WOW Mary Alice! You know I'm praying .
Love,
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Praying for this precious child during this Holy Week.
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We are praying for them! I pray this works out beautifully for your family! This is so lovely...you surely have a blessed family!
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Praying, Mary Alice.
Peace,
Nancy
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wamegomom Forum Pro
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Thanks, everyone. So far we haven't heard anything. As soon as we do, I'll post it here first!!!!!!!
Keep praying for this special girl,
Mary Alice in Kansas
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Praying that this girl be blessed to become part of your beautiful family...
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I am still praying! I'm sorry you have to wait so long for your answer, Mary Alice. I hope that our prayers and the support of family and friends are helping you through these days of waiting.
__________________ Nancy in MD. Mom of ds (24) & dd (18); 31-year Navy wife, move coordinator and keeper of home fires. Writer and dance mom.
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wamegomom wrote:
Keep praying for this special girl,
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You bet...and praying for your special family!
Love,
__________________ Angie Mc
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Oh, Mary Alice! I'm just thrilled to pray for this special young lady, and for your family's potential adoption. If it be God's will, may He make clear the way!
__________________ Jen Mackintosh
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