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Michaela Forum All-Star
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I just found a note, with pictures, one of my children wrote about me. My mommy heart is so broken. Tears are flowing and I'm not sure what if anything I should do as a consequence.
Just asking for a little prayer that I get over it quickly.
__________________ Michaela
Momma to Nicholas 16, Nathan 13, Olivia 13, Teresa 6, & Anthony 3
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jdostalik Forum All-Star
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Oh, Michaela. Praying!
__________________ God Bless,
Jennifer in TX
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DominaCaeli Forum All-Star
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Praying here, Michaela.
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Celeste
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Praying, Michaela!
Remember that we are creatures full of emotion and children's feelings and opinions can change so quickly based on the consequence or reward of the moment. Parents are the bad guys in their eyes at times. May God bless you and your family and draw you closer to each other each day, and may He heal your heart.
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Maddie Forum All-Star
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Oh, Michaela! Very big hugs , they are just children, remember that! Their feelings change so quickly, be assured they love you! I can remember terrible things I thought and said to my dad in fits of anger, but I truly love him with all my heart.
Get the tears out, you'll feel better. Praying for your heart to heal very soon.
__________________ ~Maddie~
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Sarah M Forum All-Star
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Posted: Nov 09 2009 at 4:37pm | IP Logged
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Prayers, of course, Michaela.
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Prayers and hugs. This mom thing is not for the faint of heart, is it?
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Molly
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Oh, Michaela.
What Maddie said.
We've had this happen here too. Prayers...
__________________ stef
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My thoughts and prayers go out to you my dear. Days like these can be rough, but know that even when in a moment of anger or sadness, those precious babies of yours love you.
Praying for comfort for your Mommy heart...
__________________ Mother Mary please watch over us
Steph
Wife to dh, mommy to dd '91, dd '92, dd '94, ds '94 and dd '95.
Patiently waiting to meet 9 more who have already gone home.
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aussieannie Forum All-Star
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Posted: Nov 09 2009 at 6:16pm | IP Logged
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Praying for you Micheala.
As to a response, a heart-to-heart talk to figure out what really is behind it? I just know that when we had problems with one child reacting to another child continuously, it was only when I talked it out privately with that child, worked out the root cause of this problem and assured that child of my complete and unconditional love for them..it was finally resolved.
__________________ Under Her Starry Mantle
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Praying... I know how you feel...
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MarilynW Forum All-Star
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Dear Michaela - I am so sorry that this happened. I am praying for you. Also for your child.
Hugs
__________________ Marilyn
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I'm so sorry, Michaela. I will be praying.
__________________ Ruth
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I'll pray for you, Michaela! You have such a good and tender heart!
I agree so much with Janette...children's experiences are reflected with such passion in the moment. They cannot know all the factors that influence decisions that we must make on their behalf, decisions they may not agree with.
I pray that Our Lady will assist you in pondering this in your heart so that your heart will heal and it might draw you and your child closer to her Son.
__________________ Jen Mackintosh
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Dear Michaela
for you and your children!
__________________ Stephanie
Wife and mother to Hannah '96, Maria '99, Dorothea '01, Helena '03
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Michaela, my kids have never done that to me. Rather, I wrote a terrible note to my mother when I was young. I have never forgotten how I made her feel and how that made me feel. Prayers for all of you.
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Praying for you, Michaela.
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Prayers for you, Michaela.
__________________ Mom to Joseph-8, Margaret-6, William-4, Gregory-2, and new little one due 11/1
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MaryM Board Moderator
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Praying for you, Michaela, and thirding what Janette said.
__________________ Mary M. in Denver
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Mimip Forum All-Star
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MIchaela, praying for that heart.
(On a side note I always hated the phrase, "Sticks and stones my break my bones but words will never hurt me." cause they always hurt me so badly )
__________________ In Christ,
Mimi
Wife of 16 years to Tom, Mom of DD'00, DD'02, '04(in heaven) DS'05, DS'08 and DS '12
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