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Posted: Dec 28 2007 at 1:55pm | IP Logged Quote dawn2006

Please give me some practical tips for this. So far, I've only come up with saying (to my boys): "Reach between your legs and wipe/put the tissue where the poop comes out." ??? Anything else? Tricks/tips? TIA.

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Posted: Dec 28 2007 at 2:21pm | IP Logged Quote marianne

OK, I'll chime in here.    I think that what you are saying is good. I also have had to tell them to use more toilet paper and keep wiping until the toilet paper is clean. Otherwise, you're not getting it all off.

The 6th birthday is my cut-off around here for potty help.


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Posted: Dec 28 2007 at 5:59pm | IP Logged Quote Mary Chris

It is around age 6 that they finally seem to get it! It is a very liberating feeling when you are no longer hear, "I'm done!" from the bathroom. Hang in there, the light at the end of the tunnel is close.

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Posted: Dec 28 2007 at 6:07pm | IP Logged Quote amyable

I just have to say the thread title made me . I have many more hiney wiping days ahead of me!

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Posted: Dec 29 2007 at 11:00am | IP Logged Quote Michaela

Mary Chris wrote:
It is a very liberating feeling when you are no longer hear, "I'm done!" from the bathroom.


    

My children always said it in a sing-songy voice. I literally laughed out loud when I read that, Mary Chris!



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Posted: Dec 29 2007 at 12:06pm | IP Logged Quote mellyrose

dawn2006 wrote:
Please give me some practical tips for this. So far, I've only come up with saying (to my boys): "Reach between your legs and wipe/put the tissue where the poop comes out." ??? Anything else? Tricks/tips? TIA.


I taught my boys reach behind them, not between their legs to wipe their bottoms. And, then I have them wipe until the paper is clean.

Now if only they'd remember to FLUSH!



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Posted: Dec 29 2007 at 8:51pm | IP Logged Quote Rachel May

mellyrose wrote:

I taught my boys reach behind them, not between their legs to wipe their bottoms.


I said the same and then refused to micromanage. I had a neighbor kid scream until I went in to wipe his bottom for him, and then he tried to tell me I didn't do a good enough job. Believe me, I did because he made sure I had a clear view. Honestly, I would rather deal with dirty underwear at my house than have my kids terrorizing other mothers!    I figure at some point they will be motivated enough to be sure it's done perfectly. Until then....well, we don't hand down underwear.

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Posted: Jan 02 2008 at 3:24pm | IP Logged Quote sjbacb

My 3 yo ds does it himself with those flushable wet wipes. They work great and are not too expensive. (we buy the parent's choice brand at walmart for under a $1)
Although, I never really thought about how he would do at a house without wipes. May need to occasionally "run out" and see how he does!

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Posted: Jan 03 2008 at 9:40am | IP Logged Quote ~Rachel~

My 3yo DD also wipes herself with the wet wipes. I bought them the first time around, and NEVER regretted it!
I told her to wipe from the back (I demonstrated holding her hand) until the wipes are clean, then she is done.
She also runs out and points her bum into the air for me to check !

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