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Posted: Oct 17 2006 at 9:35pm | IP Logged Quote LisaD

Nina, Lisa, I am so sorry.

I will be praying for you and your families tonight, and for the souls of your sweet babies in heaven.

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Nina and Lisa,

I am so very sorry for you both. Please be assured of our constant prayers for you and your families.



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Posted: Oct 18 2006 at 12:08am | IP Logged Quote Erica Sanchez

Oh, I am so sad to read this tonight. I am so, so sorry for you both, Lisa and Nina. I will offer our Mass and day for you both. God bless you during this very difficult time.

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Posted: Oct 18 2006 at 12:12am | IP Logged Quote materdei7

So sorry and sad for you both( Nina and Lisa),
I will keep you in our family rosary during this
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Posted: Oct 18 2006 at 12:47am | IP Logged Quote Chari

Praying for you, Lisa and Nina........I am SO sorry.



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Posted: Oct 18 2006 at 7:13am | IP Logged Quote Erin

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I was soo praying this would not be your cross. Love and Blessings to you,dh and dc.

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Posted: Oct 18 2006 at 7:14am | IP Logged Quote JennGM

Nina, I'm just so sorry. I am praying for you and Lisa. I offered up all my pokes and such in the ER yesterday for the intentions on the board.

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Posted: Oct 18 2006 at 7:43am | IP Logged Quote kathleenmom

Nina and Lisa,

You are both in mine and my family's prayers today. God love you both.

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Posted: Oct 18 2006 at 9:53am | IP Logged Quote AnaB

I'm a little late in answering. I had a suspected miscarriage before our fourth child at about 6 weeks. I had a misscarriage earlier this year with baby #5 at 11 weeks. I was very devastated. So many of you here were so kind to me with your words, advice and prayers.

It still brings tears to my eyes. May you find a balm in Gilead in Christ your Shepherd.

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Posted: Oct 18 2006 at 12:02pm | IP Logged Quote Mrs.K

So sorry for your losses, Nina and Lisa. May the Mother of Sorrows be your comfort and refuge.

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Posted: Oct 18 2006 at 12:05pm | IP Logged Quote jackiemomof7

So sorry Nina and Lisa for your losses I placed you in the hands of Our Lord at mass this morning. May He and Our Lady bring forth much comfort to you and your families during this time of sorrow.

Our Lady of Sorrows pray for us,

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Posted: Oct 18 2006 at 11:19pm | IP Logged Quote teachingmom

I am so sorry to hear of your losses, Nina and Lisa. I somehow missed this yesterday, but am thankful I read this thread now so I can pray for you both.

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Posted: Oct 18 2006 at 11:27pm | IP Logged Quote shartlesville

May our Dear Mother comfort you both.

Praying for you and your families!

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Posted: Oct 19 2006 at 8:36am | IP Logged Quote Dawnie

Lisa and Nina,

I'm so sorry to hear of your losses. There are no words...I will be praying for you both.

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Posted: Oct 19 2006 at 8:38am | IP Logged Quote momwise

Lisa and Nina,

I am very, very sorry to hear about the loss of your babies. I'll be praying for you!

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Still nothing....there is a standstill.. I think I am in a state of disbelief.

I keep waking up and remembering.

I went from that bleeding episode to NOTHING----not even one drop yesterday. I would have been 12 weeks tomorrow.

1. Does anyone have advice about how to bring on delivery naturally?

2. Does anyone have any comments about the advantages/disadvantages of the D/C?

3. Lastly, could you please add if you have gone on to have successful pregnancies after a D/C?
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Posted: Oct 19 2006 at 10:44am | IP Logged Quote Nina Murphy

That was my son, Nicholas, logged in.

But that was from me.

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Posted: Oct 19 2006 at 12:28pm | IP Logged Quote jdostalik

Dear Nina,

No advice for #1...I have had 2 D&C's--both at about 8 weeks...after letting myself try to miscarry on my own--my body just hangs on to those tiny babies--doesn't want to let them go.   

So, after a week or so, I was getting more and more depressed. I decided to have D&C's...my first one was in 1999--I've delivered three healthy babies since then. I had my second D&C in February of this year...I am now expecting and due in early January.

Be gentle with yourself and try to rest. You are in my daily prayers and sacrifices.



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Posted: Oct 19 2006 at 12:44pm | IP Logged Quote stacykay

Nina,
My first pregnancy ended in miscarriage, and, although the dear baby was gone, the placenta would not let go. I had a suction d&c at the doctor's office (I finally learned what it was to see *stars* before blacking out.) That attempt was unsuccessful, (I was hemorrhaging,) and I found myself having a surgical d&c on Good Friday, 1987. I became pregnant with my oldest ds the middle of August, 1987.
My second miscarriage required no intervention, but I was not as far along, and had none of the bleeding issues. I became pregnant with my 5th ds the next month.
I don't know how I could have made any of it come on faster or go easier.
The d&c was a neccesity in the first one, but not so in the second. The dr. said I could have one (with the second,) if I wanted, but she encouraged me to wait and see how it went, and all was *fine* (as much as it could be.)

Prayers continuing. And lots of hugs during this very hard time.

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