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Kathryn,
Do get a birthing ball. It really helped me with my second dd. You can squat/sit on that ball and really get that baby's head down and working on the perineal area without the pain of an actual squat... 
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A smile?! I am laughing hysterically here! Thanks Rachel.
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Oh my goodness Apparantly the key to a happy, relaxed natural birth is a fairly generous amount of liquor! Kathryn, if they won't let you BYOB to the labor room, I also heartily recommend the birthing ball. Like Michelle, I used it during labor with my largest (9 1/2lbs.) and when the labor stalled at the beginning of transition it was amazing how the ball helped. The more you roll your pelvis, the more you can get the labor to progress.
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What is a birthing ball? Those big exercise-like ones? It sounds very interesting.
I just re-read every word of this thread to help keep me motivated! Wonderful, wonderful information and encouragement!
I've read the Bradley book and Birthing From Within (Angie's rec.) and will start the Sears one tonight. The previous two were great - although, Angie, it took me a little while to just roll with the Birthing from Within one....my kids kept looking over my shoulder at all the birth art and asking lots of questions! But, truly, there is so much good and helpful information in there.
Thanks for the recommendation for John Michael Talbot's music as well, Angie. I've actually seen him in concert twice (once he was at our Mission for the start of a Mission concert/tour thing). I wholeheartedly agree about the relaxing tone of his music and I think I will dig out a few of his tapes/CDs. I know he has a new one out...is that the one you like? I was definitely considering bringing music this time around (having never done so before), but was thinking more along the lines of something edgier like my Matt Maher stuff (Catholic, praise and worship). I think I'm really liking your recommendation, instead!!
A month to go....feeling a little nervous....but still very encouraged by all of your thoughtful words.
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The birthing ball I used was like an excercise ball. I sat on it all day and played cards with Bill while we waited for the pit to work. It was really comfy and a fun experience, but the next day, my inner thighs, OUCH! I think 8 hours might have been excessive.
After re-reading that unassisted birth article, I'm thinking of asking if I can have a drink before heading off to the hospital, but Bill has this idea that even that would produce a child with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome.
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I have a bottle of champagne dh gave me for my birthday - which was just when I began to suspect I might be pregnant, so the bottle is still sitting there. Can't think of anything better to relax me. I'm getting ideas ... .
Thanks for the positive responses about the birthing ball. I'm definitely going to get one!
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Hi Kathryn,
I hope you do get to use the birthing pool. I had that opportunity for my first child - that was 6 years ago! However I did not actually give birth in water as I was going to sleep and my contractions were fading out after 7 hours. Whislt in the water it was wonderful but on coming out it was a desperately horrible feeling and painful! I wish I had had a birthing ball there to take over but instead I tried a birthing stool -which just didn't work for me. In the end we pushed baby on her way down on my tummy, then had an episiotomy and the doctor used his hand to help pull a tiny little head out (my request as I could not bear the thought of forceps or anything else around the baby's head!)
For my 2nd birth we did this at home - I used the bath tub - not the same as the wonderfully deep pool but still helpful (coming out as before at the end because again I was falling asleep and it is not as practical as a birthing pool.) But this time I was ready for the shock of leaving the soothing water and I just pushed the baby out in a semi upright position on my bed.
I hope all goes well - keep your ball there just in case, even if you get to use the bath!
P.S. I understand that in any case sitting on a ball is very good for your back/posture in general...
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