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Posted: July 30 2008 at 10:06am | IP Logged Quote PDyer

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Say "I prefer to shake hands" rather than kissing someone she's uncomfortable kissing.


And quickly introduce another topic..

"I'd prefer to shake hands" (and then do so in a friendly manner without waiting for agreement) and start talking about something else WHILE you're doing it. Don't stand around waiting for approval or argument.


You're absolutely right. I understand adding a spot of humor also helps, but since I'm far from quick on my feet socially I didn't think of that.   

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