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Posted: June 19 2008 at 9:25pm | IP Logged Quote mama251ders

Oh wow. I am sorry about that. What a horrible position you are in. Maybe you can talk to his dad about it? I'll keep praying.

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WHAT!?!? In Australia, overlooking or not properly investigating such things hits media news, why, why won't they investigate this situation? Surely, there must be a way to pursue this further? How can the law ignore this??? I'm shocked and I feel for your greatly Paula, praying and big hug from way down here!

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No, it just can not be.

Praying for you and your dear little guy.

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Posted: June 20 2008 at 1:07am | IP Logged Quote Angie Mc

Paula in MN wrote:
I spoke to a worker in Child Protective Services today. I called them to find out the status.

An investigation has been ruled out.

Apparently in MN it's okay to hit a child in the face.


I was afraid of this. I'm not an expert but I do know that each state has different guidelines. In AZ, CPS will only intervene in the case of "safety" concerns (immediate or very near future, moderate to severe degree of harm, and a need to control the situation) which is different from "risk" (longer term timeframe, low to severe degree of harm, and a need to resolve or reduce the risk.) I'm so sorry. At least this incident is still part of the discoverable paper trail.

My prayers continue, Paula.

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This is awful!

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Posted: June 20 2008 at 8:32am | IP Logged Quote Mackfam

OH NO! I'm so sorry Paula. I'm struggling with the words to write - anger, confusion, tears, concern for your dear little guy - I can only imagine how your heart must be feeling!

Know that we're holding you, your son and all involved in prayer here.

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That is just ridiculous! You hear of people having trouble with CPS over yelling at their kid in the grocery store or a false tale of minimal neglect from a neighbor. Then there are real safety concerns like you have that go unchecked?! It just makes no sense.

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Dearest, dearest Paula, I am so very sad for you. I really hoped this would help you get footing for reversing this decision. I am commiting your sons' little heart and your suffering spirit to Our Lady of Sorrows. May she protect, comfort, and console you.

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Posted: June 20 2008 at 9:24pm | IP Logged Quote cathhomeschool

I am soooo sorry, Paula! Maybe this will be a first step in a change-for-the-better for your son. I am praying for you all, and especially that the Holy Spirit will protect your son and draw him closer to Our Lord each day.

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I can't even begin to imagine your heartbreak over this, Paula. I am praying for you and your son.

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Posted: June 21 2008 at 10:40am | IP Logged Quote ladybugs

Paula,

I haven't had a whole lot of time to respond, but since I've read this, I've been praying.

Will continue to.....I'm sorry.

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