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Oh, Marianne, I am so sorry! What a difficult thing to have to be so, so busy this week while you are grieving too. I wish you lived near me so I could watch your kids or send a teenager over to babysit. Is there anyone in your homeschool community or your parish who could help in a pinch?
I had two miscarriages and did not have to have any medical intervention with either. I know that it is necessary sometimes, but I hope you can just have it happen naturally.
Prayers for you!
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So sorry to read this--praying for you. 
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Just seeing this, I am so sorry. Praying for you.
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Mackfam wrote:
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Marianne, I am so very sorry for your loss. I have had two miscarriages, one naturally and one by D&E. I absolutely agree with Jennifer. If I could have delivered the 2nd naturally, I absolutely would have. It breaks my heart that I was never able to see my 4th child in person.
My prayers will be with you.
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I'm so sorry, Marianne.
Praying for you. 
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I'm so sorry for your loss, Marianne. Praying for you and your family as you grieve.
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Oh, Marianne- my heart is aching for you. You are being so strong. May the Blessed Mother hold on to you tightly right now and carry you through.
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I'm sorry Marianne
I saw this post earlier and offered a prayer. I'll pray again.
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I'm so very sorry, Marianne. Saying special prayers for your entire family.
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I am so sorry Marianne. You are in my prayers.
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I'm sorry, Marianne.
Keeping you in prayer...
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You are in my prayers....
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Marianne, I'm so very sorry for your loss and I'm so glad to know your sweet baby. I will continue to hold you and your family in prayer. Here is a link to Our Mother's Garden of Sorrow where you may find some consolation.
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I am so, so sorry, Marianne! You have been and continue in my prayers. May Our Blessed Mother console you and give you strength. Praying for your family as well.
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(((Marianne)))
I came to the forum just to let you know I was thinking of you today for your appointment, and have been praying for you. I'm so sorry to find this news. You and your sweet baby will continue to be in my prayers -- may God bring you peace and strength.
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I am so, so sorry, Marianne. Praying for you as you grieve.
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marianne wrote:
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Marianne, I am so so sorry.
D and C can cause permanent uterine scarring, preventing implantation of another new little life, so I would opt for "natural" if you can.
I am sorry that this is such a busy time for you as well.
Praying for you and your family.
Peace of Christ,
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Natural is preferred absolutely but take care of yourself as well. Trust yourself and your husband to know when things are going well and when they might be dangerous. I let my natural delivery go too long and ended up just minutes away from a blood transfusion. My wonderful pro-life OB came in just in time to do the D&C before I passed out from blood loss. Sympathetic prayers for you during this difficult time!
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Marianne, Please find comfort knowing that you are in my prayers.
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Marianne,
I have had 2 D&C's. My body just never "lets go" of my babies....So I have had to go that route, unfortunately. I have never had any problem with recovery or any side effects. My recovery has always been very quick (well, the physical recovery, that is!.
If you would like information about them, feel free to PM me...
Prayers for you during this sad time. I will offer my day for you!
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